Seven commitments 1. To consciously build up the shared energy field of the relationship and make important decisions in the light of the essence point. 2. To allow each other to ‘clean out’ emotionally and not try to prevent this out of fear that the other will grow more quickly etc. It is dangerous to ‘sit on the other’s subconscious!’ 3. To totally accept one’s own and each other’s emotional patterns, but never to fall into the trap of mistaking them as real. The one who is more clear and in balance when the other is upset emotionally will hold a clear space for the other, enabling him or her to more easily come back into balance. 4. To totally let go of blaming the other. 5. Never to go to sleep at night on negative energy. Perhaps you are going through real difficulties together, perhaps you are feeling hurt or defensive. No matter what has happened end the day with a loving touch or soft words—even just “sleep well” is enough. Do not ignore each other. 6. To regularly share a meditative space together. 7. To lovingly support each other’s visions and chosen spiritual practice.