IQ and Genius - NOW IT`S SQ!
by Cherian P. Tekkeveettil
IQ and EQ give way to spiritual intelligence, the ultimate intelligence that can add value and meaning to your life
EIGHT SIGNS OF HIGH SQ
1. Flexibility
2. Self-awareness
3. An ability to face and use suffering
4. The ability to be inspired by a vision
5. An ability to see connections between diverse
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SEVEN TYPES OF INTELLIGENCE
With the popularity of EQ and SQ in recent years, it might be worth remembering an older way of conceiving intelligence, which helps cultivate individual aspects of ourselves. This is Howard
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For long, the world gave much importance to Intelligence
Quotient. "My son has an IQ of 210!" the proud
mother would gush. "He's going to be a scientist." This attitude
is a legacy of the early 20th century when psychologists devised tests
to measure intelligence. These tests primarily measured intellectual or
rational intelligence (used to solve logical problems). The higher the
figure, the belief went, the greater the intelligence.
In mid-1990s,
Daniel Goleman revealed findings in neuroscience and psychology
that stressed the importance of Emotional Quotient (EQ). This
makes us aware of our feelings and that of others. It gives empathy,
motivation, compassion and an ability to respond skillfully to pleasure
and pain. Goleman argued that EQ was a basic requirement for
the use of IQ. If the areas of our brain that feel are damaged,
our ability to think effectively is diminished.
Last year,
however, authors Dana Zohar and Ian Marshall introduced
a new dimension to human intelligence. Spiritual Quotient
(or SQ) is the ultimate intelligence, they claim. This is the
intelligence used to solve problems of meaning and value. "Is my
job giving me the fulfillment I seek?" "Am I relating to the
people in my life in a way that contributes to their happiness and mine?"
Answers to these questions determine whether we will find happiness
or not. IQ and EQ are inadequate in such issues.
"Spiritual intelligence," explains Ram Mohan, a Vedanta
teacher, "is about the growth of a human being. It is about moving
on in life. About having a direction in life and being able to heal ourselves
of all the resentment we carry. It is thinking of ourselves as an expression
of a higher reality. It is also about how we look at the resources available
to us. We realize that nature is not meant to be exploited. Ultimately,
we discover freedom from our sense of limitation as human beings and attain
moksha."
Anand
Tendolkar, a workshop leader, says: "For me spiritual intelligence
is about pondering over my life's purpose. Just being in touch with that
question is fulfilling. Finally I realize that there is an immensity to
me. As I move along the path, deeper levels of myself get unfolded, leading
to fulfillment."
Humans
are essentially spiritual beings, evolved to ask fundamental questions.
"Who am I?" "Where am I going?" "What do others
mean to me?" It is an ability to answer questions like these that
lead people to personal growth workshops. Spiritual intelligence
motivates people to balance their work schedules to spend time with
the family. Or an executive with a high SQ might look beyond
profit margins and devote time for voluntary work with orphans. Spiritual
intelligence also addresses the need to place one's life in a shared
context of value.
The transformative
power of SQ distinguishes it from IQ and EQ. IQ
primarily solves logical problems. EQ allows us to judge the
situation we are in and behave appropriately. SQ allows us to
ask if we want to be in that situation in the first place. It might
motivate us to create a new one. SQ has little connection to
formal religion. Atheists and humanists may have high SQ while
someone actively religious may not.
"The
awakening of our spiritual intelligence may be a time of great joy and
meaning," says Anita Pandey, who frequents personal growth programs. "Suddenly I had a feeling of being in
control. Earlier things happened to me. Now I am more aware. Also, I
have actually started living those values I had heard about—like
acceptance and unconditional love."
In their book
Spiritual Intelligence—The Ultimate Intelligence, Zohar
and Marshall discuss the scientific evidence for SQ. In the 1990s,
research by neuropsychologist Michael Persinger and neurologist
V.S. Ramachandran at the University of California led to an identification
of a 'God-spot' in the human brain. This area is located among
neural connections in the temporal lobes of the brain. During scans with
positron emission topography, these neural areas light up whenever research
subjects are exposed to discussion of spiritual topics. Of course, this
is culture specific, with Westerners responding to ideas of 'God' and
Buddhists
and
Hindus responding to certain symbols. While the God-spot does
not prove the existence of 'God', it does indicate that the brain is programmed
to ask ultimate questions.
We
use spiritual intelligence to transform ourselves and others, heal relationship,
cope with grief, and move beyond conditioned habits of the past. To develop
high SQ, each person needs to approach the task according to his/her
personality.
J.L.
Holland divided people into six personality
types (take the test) and devised tests to determine one's type, or the mix.
On
each personality test we would have scored between zero and 12. This indicates
the strength of our interest in that sector of life. An average adult will score
6 or more on perhaps three of the personality types. For example, we might score
highest (say nine) on the artistic type, but score seven on the enterprising type
and six on the investigative. Naturally, we must allow for some degree of overlap
between the different types.
Once we
know our personality type, we can better choose our particular path
to higher SQ.
CONVENTIONAL TYPE: THE PATH OF DUTY
We follow this path by serving the community. This
is done by realizing our life's purpose and following it with full commitment.
We have the interest of humanity in mind and pursue what we truly love for others'
sake. Many of us may want to associate ourselves with a specific organization to fulfill this ambition.
Whatever outlet
we choose, we must avoid two common mistakes that people on this path
make. Avoid becoming narcissistic. It is an easy trap to slip into. At
one point we may withdraw completely from relationships and focus only
on ourselves. Behaviors associated with such self-absorption include lying
in bed late, heavy drinking and smoking and overindulgence in food
and sex.
A narcissist must address his problems adequately through therapy or spiritual
practices before he can progress on the path of duty.
Avoid extreme identification with
your group and its uncritical championing. We must realize that there is a place
in the world for groups whose values differ from ours.
SOCIAL TYPE: THE PATH OF NURTURING
This path is about loving, nurturing and protecting.
It corresponds to the Mother Goddess. People on this path include parents, teachers,
nurses and therapists, who reach out to others with acceptance and compassion
and provide them with the space to grow and find themselves.
To
pursue this path, the right attitude is crucial. "How can I serve others
when I myself need so much from others?" explains Ram Mohan. "For example,
I live in a city where many of the things I consume—like food and medicines—are
not produced. I need the efforts of so many people to make life possible. I realize
that I am only making my talents available to people in return for things I am
receiving. When I look at it this way, it helps me face the many disappointments I may encounter."
It is important to be mindful of the way we help others. A distorted way is to succumb
to the shadow aspect of love and nurturing, which is hatred and revenge. Love
can be patient and kind but when we do not truly love ourselves, our love for others becomes bitter and destructive.
Another common failing is to suffocate the person we seek to love. We have to give the
person space to grow. To pursue this path effectively, we must be receptive and
listen to the other person. We must be willing to reveal ourselves to others.
A risk-free approach is unlikely to succeed.
When we meet great teachers, one striking thing about them is their ability to truly
be there for another person. Such attention and empathy is rare. To pursue this
path, we must model ourselves on a teacher or mentor who has already clarified
his life before reaching out to others.
INVESTIGATIVE TYPE: THE PATH OF KNOWLEDGE
The path of knowledge covers a broad range of experience. It could be something as simple as solving everyday problems. Or, as vast as pursuing a spiritual path. Most people on this path are scholars, scientists
or those who have an intense love of learning.
How we pursue this path can have profound benefits for mankind. One can engage in
research that solves problems plaguing mankind. For instance, a scientist could
devise a cheap fuel that is eco-friendly.
While the potential of this path is limitless, we must clarify our intention in pursuing it.
We must realize that all things are interconnected and we cannot apply our knowledge
to one area of experience without having profound effects on others.
Nandan Savnal, Mumbai-based NLP
trainer, alerts us to another crucial aspect: "One of the most
important challenges on this path," he says, "is whether you
are going to be honest with yourself and question things. When you investigate
matters, your value system will be challenged. You will have to press
on regardless. You cannot afford to operate from your comfort zone."
Another
spiritually unintelligent way to walk this path that must be avoided is using
our talent to support morally reprehensible work. Like the historians who deny
the Holocaust or those who devote themselves to spreading racist propaganda.
ARTISTIC TYPE: THE PATH OF PERSONAL TRANSFORMATION
Writers, artists, musicians
and their like constitute only 10 to 15 percent of the population. But most of
us walk this path to some extent. The task facing such people is personal and
transpersonal integration. We must explore the depths of ourselves and weld the
disparate fragments into a harmonious whole.
The path
most closely associated with the brain's God-spot activity, people here
are most open to extreme emotions and eccentric behavior. For this reason,
artists are most often thought of as society's healers (or shamans).
They journey into the unknown and return with a fragment that can heal
us all. This is the process that has created some of the world's greatest art.
Cultures
throughout history have treated the artist as someone blessed with special
vision. Indeed, their capacity to create societal awareness is profound.
Consider the great saint-poets like Rumi and Kabir.
For
Savnal, engaging with great stories from different traditions has been therapeutic.
"When I was young," he says, "I was fascinated by the story about
Bhima in which he has a wrestling match and jumps up with the strength of ten
elephants every time he is knocked down. With time, I realized that the suggestion
is to bounce back with greater energy every time you face a setback."
We
must watch out for certain traps, however. One is becoming an aesthete—people
concerned with form only who produce art purely for sensual gratification. Their
goal is acquisition and display. Another common failing is to be a compulsive,
permanent rebel. Such people will resist order and imagination in their art, fight
committed relationships and even miss deadlines.
The
extremes described above are a turning away from conflict. But when an artist
embraces his conflict he can claim his spiritual intelligence and produce art
of lasting value.
REALISTIC PERSON: THE PATH OF BROTHERHOOD
Priti Sen is a caring middle-aged mother and a devoted wife. Her husband is a
rich, influential businessman. She loves socializing and also does charity work.
Seemingly strong, cheerful and in charge of her life, the truth about her is not
immediately obvious. Her teenage son lost both his legs in an accident. While
her shattered husband and other children cry almost daily, Priti is quiet, sensible
and calm. She busies herself caring for her son, building a new life for him.
Her ability to accept adversity is a source of strength to her family.
Priti exemplifies
the attributes of the realistic type. Practical, no-nonsense, uncomfortable
with overt feelings, these people personify the virtues of the hero.
Their mission in life is to pursue the path of brotherhood and justice.
It is to see a connection between themselves and all other beings. A
Buddhist sutra describes this: "In the heaven of
Indra (the king of the gods in the Hindu pantheon) there is a
network of pearls so arranged that if you look at one, you see all the
others reflected in it. In the same way, each object in the world is
not merely itself, but involves every other object and in fact is every
other object."
Those
who have internalized this precept form organizations that bring justice into
the world. They decide how rights and goods are distributed for the benefit of
all. This involves respect for the other's point of view. When such people work
together in NGOs or spiritual organizations, they grow toward a deeper understanding
that all people are players in a larger pattern.
ENTERPRISING TYPE: THE PATH OF SERVANT-LEADERSHIP
All human groupings, families, tribes and societies need leaders to impart
vision, motivation and purpose. Effective leaders must be confident, outgoing
and comfortable with power. Truly great leaders are servant-leaders-those
who serve humanity by creating new ways for people to relate to each other.
They put the good of society above their own good and take society in
new directions. Buddha and Jesus were such leaders. In India,
we had Emperor Ashoka who, after his brutal conquest of Kalinga, converted
to Buddhism and embraced nonviolence. And environmentalists like
Sunderlal Bahuguna and Medha Patkar have forced people to look
afresh at ecological issues.
It must be stressed, however, that a servant-leader should have a great deal of inner
clarity. A spiritually unintelligent way to walk this path is to use one's power
to exploit others. Another mistake is to focus purely on one's petty needs and
ignore the interests of the people we serve.
"The
challenge is to have a vision," says Ram Mohan. "After that, the task
is to build trust and empower people to give their best." It is essential
to do this ethically. In a corrupt society, there will be pressures on us and
we must know how to handle it. To retain his balance, a leader would do well to
think about trusteeship. Gandhi declared that when an individual has more than
his proportionate share of wealth, he should become a trustee of that portion
on God's behalf.
It is to this noble vision of leadership that one must aspire. In an increasingly
fragmented world, we need leaders of vision who can bring hope and purpose into
the lives of others, someone who sees all of humanity as God's people. As Jesus
said: "Not my will, Lord, but thine."
The outline
of the above paths is meant to help those who wish to develop their
spiritual intelligence and gain a better awareness of themselves.
To this awareness must be added the invaluable ingredient of hard work.
But thinking of ourselves as spiritual beings is a useful start. Once
we do this, we can enlarge our idea of intelligence to include this
greater vision of ourselves.
When we commit ourselves to the chosen paths in this light, we begin to imbue greater
meaning, value and fulfillment in our lives.
EIGHT SIGNS OF HIGH SQ
1. Flexibility
2. Self-awareness
3. An ability to face and use suffering
4. The ability to be inspired by a vision
5. An ability to see connections between diverse
More >>
SEVEN TYPES OF INTELLIGENCE
With the popularity of EQ and SQ in recent years, it might be worth remembering an older way of conceiving intelligence, which helps cultivate individual aspects of ourselves. This is Howard
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