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Feng
shui is not mere placement of articles; it is one of the personal growth
tools to attune your life with your environment. And it is vying with
vaastu shastra (the
ancient Indian version of feng shui) in popularity stakes
When I walked into feng shui expert Ritu Kapoor's house in Delhi, I didn't
notice the cramped entrance. But what I did notice was the beautifully
upholstered light blue sofa, the heavenly sky right inside a home. And
what caught my attention at feng shui practitioner Ravi Chadha's house
entrance was an earthen fish flowerpot resting on three earthen feet.
How come the
two had managed to light up small spaces? What they had done was make
a subtle shift in the ch'i (universal energy), so as to eliminate
shar ch'i (negative energy). That's what feng shui (pronounced
foong shway) is all aboutcreate sheng ch'i (positive energy)
to balance man and nature. When it is present, everything goes exactly
the way you want it to. Something that vaastu shastra also does.
From an unknown art in India, feng shui of Chinese origin, is today gaining
popularity as a personal growth tool, equivalent to vaastu. What
makes it so widely accepted? "Because feng shui is more flexible
than vaastu," says Ritu. Adds Chadha: "In 95 per cent
of the cases, there is no need for demolition or reconstruction. The beauty
of feng shui is that it incorporates minor changes, which make major changes
in your life."
Let's see
how Ritu and Chadha created ch'i. Shar ch'i is created by
straight lines or angles directly pointing towards your house. This was
the case in both houses. To create ch'i, Ritu hung a few Chinese
coins in gold and black metal with a red thread on her main door, put
plants on the cabinet, and a metal sculpture on the other side. And the
moment you entered, your eyes fell on the aum (the sacred Hindu
sound of creation) engraved in gold, studded with gems and a red cloth
hung over it. Chadha had detracted the shar ch'i with the fish
pot.
As far back as 5, 000 years, the Chinese
discovered that if their homes faced south with the hills behind them
and gentle flowing water in front, people living in them led happy, contented
lives. In fact, the word feng shui means wind and water. Cold, harsh winds
came from the north and hills in this direction protected them from the
chill. Flowing water allowed the crops to grow and created ch'i.
So, ideally homes should be in the hills, but since this
is not possible in today's world, feng shui has the flexibility to accommodate
most changes in your present homes. Rasika, Chadha's daughter who works
with him as a feng shui consultant, got one of the entrance walls painted
in silver and blue to give the effect of running water. They've hung a
picture of a waterfall over it to make opportunities flow their way in
life. Right beneath that is the leaping frog, symbolic of leaping ahead
in life.
According
to another legend, feng shui originated with a tortoise. During irrigation
in the Yellow River ordered by Wu, one of the five mythical emperors ruling
China in prehistoric times, a giant tortoise crawled out of the river.
It was widely believed that the gods resided in this sea creature, even
Hindus claim tortoise to be one of the nine avatars of Lord Vishnu. On
looking closely, Wu found a three-by-three magic square on its shell.
Each horizontal and vertical row added up to 15.
Through the magical square, the pa kua (pronounced bagua) was developed.
This has nine squares representing the different areas in lifewealth,
fame, marriage, family and health, good luck, children, knowledge, career
and mentors and travel. To facilitate matters, Patiala-based Sanjay Gupta
of India has developed a feng shui compass out of this pa kua and
has authored The Practical Remedies: Vaastu Shastra & Feng Shui.
"Feng
shui is individual specific. Besides the pa kua, we also have to check
out other factors," says Rasika. Your animal sign, based on the year
of birth according to Chinese astrology, will show specific traitsboth
physically and in your personalitywhich relate to one particular
element. The elements are wood, fire, metal, earth and water.
Write Park-Tin Li and Helen Yeap in Change Your Life with Feng Shui
(published by Health Harmony): "Different elements interact positively
or negatively with each other. In feng shui the compatibility cycle is
based on a free-flowing circular movement, linking the elements in a positive
combination of energies." They give the compatibility cycle as: wood
feeds fire, which creates earth, earth is the cradle of ore and the creator
of metal and metal in its molten form is solidified and finds its strength
in water, which feeds the roots of trees and is the heart of wood.
The
authors also show the incompatibility cycle: wood through its roots drives
stakes into the earth, which smothers and consumes water. Fire corrodes
metal and metal cuts wood.
To enhance or depress certain areas, feng shui offers nine kinds of cures.
One is the use of bright objects such as mirrors, lights and crystals.
Dr Rachna Khanna, homeopath and feng shui and energy healing accessories
retailer in Delhi, put a pa kua mirror on the wall just above her
bathroom door so that the wealth wouldn't keep flowing out.
Then
there are living objects such as aquariums and flowers. In case of their
non-availability, you can use ceramic animals or earthenware. Ritu recounts
how her career in feng shui started with an aquarium she had bought for
her son's birthday three years back. "By chance, I put it in the
career corner of the room and today feng shui is a way of life."
By far, flowers are the most commonly used cure. Now we know why flowers
have remained an excellent gift down the ages in different cultures.
Third comes
sound, which can be created with wind chimes and bells. No wonder a temple
has so many bellsto enhance ch'i. Says Rachna: "There
was constant sickness in a family friend's home. On checking we found
that they had a spiral staircase in the center of their house. So I advised
them to put a wind chime there, which certainly improved the situation."
Another common cure is moving objects such as fountains. Then heavy objects
such as stones, boulders and statues also provide a remedy. For instance,
Rasika has put crystals in her metal corner. Ritu has put black stone
in her career corner. In fact, in the east corner of her drawing room,
you find a live turtle in a blue bowl with a black stone to 'sunbathe'
on. Cool feng shui cure!
Sometimes,
feng shui experts recommend hollow objects such as flutes. Colors too
are an important aspect and are used in co-ordination with the five elements.
Even electrical appliances such as stereos, radios and TV sets have to
be kept in a specific place. Above all this, feng shui experts rely heavily
on intuition.
Both Ritu and Rasika showed me around their drawing rooms. The
east corner had crystals and earthen idols of Ganesha (Hindu God
of success) or Lakshmi (Hindu Goddess of wealth). Ritu had beautiful
sandalwood idols with all the nine incarnations of Lord Vishnu. But this
was all Indian! What about the Chinese articleshamsas, wind
chimes, bells? "We have to attune to our environment. I've used a
lot of Chinese articles in my house, but I feel that we vibe best with
our culture," elucidates Ritu. In the fame corner of her drawing
room, she has hung a hamsa, put a sun painted in gold, embedded
with emeralds to circulate ch'i. Chadha has even gone on to put
a wood dragon in his wood corner. "People here consider the dragon
to be a ferocious animal. But in China the dragon is revered as it is
considered powerful enough to take all negativity, like our Ganesha,"
he says.
Both stress the importance of feng shui as a personal
growth tool. "Feng shui is more than just placement of articles
in the house. It is connected to your entire well-being," says Chadha.
In fact, Rachna has been using feng shui along with homeopathy to treat
patients. She cites the case of a 24-year old tobacco addict who was disappointed
in love. "I asked him to light camphor lamps regularly, and he is
much better now." The camphor lamp takes away your negativity by
collecting negative energy in the form of carbon.
Explains Chadha: "Feng shui affects us at the physical, mental, emotional
and finally the spiritual level." At the physical level, it relates
to the changing of objects, or making interior changes. "Then of
course, once you are stabilized mentally you can progress emotionally.
Finally once the emotional balance is created, one evolves to the higher
self." Chadha stresses the need to change your attitude along with
the placing of the objects. "Feng shui can't change your destiny,
you also have to perform certain karma to evolve," says Ritu. "Simply
by facing east, you can't progress, hard work is equally important."
So, why not
try to grow the feng shui way?
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Feng
Shui is also about spiritual development, says Ritu Kapoor. She
suggests that:
Feng
shui works better for you if you are more attuned to the universe.
Remove all the blockages from your mind and start afresh. Send good
vibrations to all and sundry. Be true to yourself and connect with
your higher self. If you hate someone, send love vibes to that person
first thing in the morning. This works very well for people with
relationship
problems, more so in the case of unhappy marriages. Just visualize
yourself throwing roses and smiles at that person, saying 'I Love
You'. For good luck and fortune, preferably cover your entrance
with money plant.
Rasika and Ravi Chadha suggest simple remedies:
1. At work, sit with your back to a solid wall. If you face open
space you will be more in command of the situation.
2. The person cooking the food should also face open space. This
is a source of energy. Food will be more nourishing, there will
be harmony in the house and people will be less nervous.
3. Have prominent nameplates. Your identity is the first source
of ch'i.
4. Don't sleep on a box-bed. As most people fill it with clutter,
it blocks ch'i. In case it is not possible to change your
bed, take out the clutter and put bed sheets and quilts in it. Raise
the bed by putting bricks under it to enable ch'i to circulate.
5. Play loud music at dusk for at least 10 minutes. With the setting
sun the energies get low and loud music helps to boost energy levels.