Holistic Living - Back to basics
by Suma Varughese
Forsaking the pursuit of material pleasure, many people the world over are discovering joy and happiness in living simply with the satisfaction that they are not harming the environment. Simple living, of course, has a precedent in Indian tradition
Civilization, in the real sense of the term, consists not in
the multiplication but in the deliberate reduction of wants. This alone
promotes real happiness and contentment.
Mahatma Gandhi.
When Jayesh Shah quit stock broking in 1993, he said good-bye to
a company he had built from staff strength of two to 110 employees and
40 computers. As the owner of one of the top 10 stock broking firms in
India, Shah's life was opulent.
Today, as publisher of Humanscape, an Indian magazine dealing
with social and political issues from a humanistic angle, Shah, more often
than not, travels by bus. Save for an occasional family dinner, he rarely
socializes, and the lifestyle his family maintains, though comfortable,
is thrifty, and free of frills. The changeover for him has meant "freedom
to do what I really want to do".
Dr. Manesh L.Shrikant, 61, is another success story. At 30, the
youngest general manager and then chief executive of Mukand Ltd, he was
living in a palatial apartment in Darsham, Bombay's most prestigious high-rise,
when it struck him that he would need a proportionate income to sustain
his life style. Sensing a threat to his freedom, he moved his family to
a two-bed-room apartment, even as his general manager stayed in a luxurious
bungalow in Juhu.
"Neither the corporate power nor the affluence was of any use to me,"
he says. Today, his values
are derived from his childhood, when money was scarce. "Having experience
poverty, I knew that simple food tasted as good or better than a five-star
meal. I tell my children their worst luck is that they have a very rich
father".
"The more I cut down,"Shrikant adds, "the more time I have to be
happy." Today, he is honorary dean of the S.P.Jain Institute of Management,
where he is experimenting with synthesizing business efficiency and humane
values. "We make our students aware of the pitfalls of success and their training projects are usually in slum areas, not air-conditioned
multinational offices."
Another cameo. Derek Monteiro, a former student at IIT Bombay,
he is a New Age artist-singer-composer. His livelihood is precarious, but
Monteiro is blissful. "I've given up chasing ego-based goals,"
he says. "Life becomes simple when you realize that there is a
creator who creates us and sustains us. Life is complete." The
American have an utterly unpoetic term for this new romantic phenomenon:
downshifting - a move away from materialism towards a simpler,
more fulfilling life. Downshifting, also known as "simple
living" or "voluntary simplicity"' is a roaring trend in the
land of the shopping mall, provoking a flood of literature and a slew
of action groups. Books such a Voluntary Simplicity By Dune
Elgin and Simplify Your Life:100 Ways to Slow Down and Enjoy
the Things That Really Matter by Elaine St Janes
are runaway bestsellers.
A nationwide public opinion survey in the USA on consumption, materialism
and the environment once revealed that 28 per cent of the respondents
had voluntarily taken steps to make less money in the past few years.
John Robbins, heir apparent to the Baskin Robbins ice-cream
empire until he renounced it at 21, says: "Among my parents' friend
were some of the wealthiest people in the world, and I must tell you in
all honesty, they were also some of the most neurotic people in
the world. So I've had the opportunity to learn firsthand that acquiring
things is a total distraction."
While the American Dream is being redefined in its home turf, its
stock has never been higher in India. Years after liberalization
led to the flooding of the market with irresistible goodies copiously
promoted by the parallel satellite revolution, Uncle Sam struts through
every small town, chomping on a burger, sipping a cola, wearing denims
and chasing money.
Yet, as a nation, we have never fully bought into the philosophical base
of materialism, perhaps insulted by our ancient culture
of renunciation and our poverty-stricken masses. We remain
deeply suspicious of the phenomenon, and survivors or refuseniks
of the consumerist culture routinely surface every day.
Rajshekharan Nair, a talented journalist, would rather earn a pittance
than leave his beloved Kerala, a coastal state in southern India. At the
opposite end of the scale, we have former sybarites like Titoo Ahluwalia,
chief of MARG, a leading Indian market research agency, enthusiastically
embracing the isolation and quiet of country life.
So how does a potential exodus to simplicity begin? Like all big
truths, it radiates from an infinite number of paths and possibilities.
For Jayesh Shah, it derives from the humanist philosophy
of the Argentine, Silo, who defined all actions that ended with
death as meaningless, thereby excluding personal goals such as money,
power, status or fame, in favor of goals larger than
or transcending the individual.
For Dr A.Sadanand, managing trustee of the Bharati Sanskrit Vidya Niketenam an Indian institute teaching Sanskrit, simple living is
a function of individuality and freedom. "The source of
joy and happiness is to live life according to individual
philosophical, emotional and psychological molding, not according
to the expectations of other." For Baiju Parthan, artist and writer,
simplicity is an existential stance, which enables him to lie in
equilibrium with the universe. For Vedanta teacher Acharya Ram Mohan,
simplicity is a function of who you are: "Simple living
emerges from being a simple person. Developing trust in life, dropping
survival attitudes leads to simplicity."
Whether fuelled by intellectual conviction, philosophical stance
or spiritual prompting, priorities are recast away
from money, power, position, and famewhat
one might call tangible goalstowards a more intangible fulfillment.
Shrikant explains the movement succinctly: "For some people success
is not an eternal source, it is internal. It's a question of what I am,
rather than what I have."
My own search for simplicity began, ironically enough, a year after
I became editor of Society, an elitist lifestyle-and-people Indian
magazine. Those days I was unhappy, confused, godlessan unlikely
candidate for spiritual awakening. Nevertheless, to my astonishment
and gratitude, that is precisely what I underwent. In less than a moth,
like a jigsaw puzzle coming together, I received a series of insights
that revealed the secret of happinessindeed, of life itself.
I learnt that happiness could only be found through that of others;
that universal welfare was a conduit to one's own well being; that
interconnectedness was the stuff of life. And conversely, that
any action in conflict with universal welfare led to suffering.
Using the larger good as a parameter clarified much of life for me both
at the individual, and the collective level. As much as
it would keep a mother from bullying and browbeating her child, it could
make the political system shift from selfish power play to selfless service.
As much as it kept an employer focused on the employee's welfare, it could
keeps the economic system focused on the welfare of the environment. Husbands
wouldn't beat their wives and nations wouldn't wage war against nations.
Caste, creed, community, wealth would cease to
divide. Keeping our sights fixed steadily on universal welfare
as the means to our own welfare spells the end to all conflict, and the
reign of enduring harmony, for both ourselves and the world at
large.
There is no convert as zealous as the atheist, no saint as ardent as a
sinner. Having drunk deeply of misery, I clutched at happiness
with almost inhuman ferocity, determined not to let anything come between
it and me henceforth, no matter how high the price. Since then, my one
abiding purpose in life has been to reach that spot where focusing on
universal happiness would be my natural state.
My journey has been both internal and external. Even as I looked within
and embarked on the perilous task of discovering and deactivating the
factors that blocked my happiness, I was also widening my
sights, attempting to see not just the roots of our social, economic and
political conflicts, but also their possible solution based on universal
welfare. In or out, both paths led to simplification.
Internally, my pursuit of happiness simplified priorities,
illuminating not just the futility of such goals as fame,
money, power or possession, but their potential danger
as well. The broad spectrum of human misery showed me how much unhappiness
was caused by desire alone. Then I began to understand that only
by going beyond desire could I hope to truly secure happiness.
This idea has a time-honored place in our tradition; indeed, it may be
said to be the central tenet of the spiritual path. "The man who forsakes
all desires and moves without longing, without the thought of mine
or I, attains peace" is the wise counsel of the Bhagavad
Gita.
The process of elimination is not easy, especially as it is threefold:
emotional, psychological and physical. Emotional simplification
is to let go of feelings that endanger happinessfeelings
such as anger, hate, greed, envythe cardinal sins. Above all, it
means letting go of the past. Says Kartik Vyas, a personal growth
trainer and yoga enthusiast: "Through yoga,
I realized that thought can cause both joy and stress."
Psychological simplifications entail going beyond ego gratification
by power, status, dominion or needs such as those of survival and security.
According to Vyas, yoga identifies two attitudes that hinder
growth: asmita, identifying with feelings, and ashnivesh,
resistance to change. Acharya Ram Mohan points out
the Gita's formula for simplification: adamvitam
(dropping pride), and amanitvam (humility).
At the physical level, the impact is on lifestyle, the life choices of
career, marriage, food, clothing and shelter. Baiju Parthan says
astutely: "Most people don't live, they have lifestyles. Not to have a
lifestyle, in fact, is the true way of life."
For Parthan, that translates into vegetarianism, and a delicately
balanced way of life: "It is said that each of us is allotted a
certain number of breaths after which we die. In the same way, each of
us has been allotted certain resources, which we must eke out over a lifetime.
Overusing the resources leads to scarcity later."
Parthan views simple living as an existential issue, a question
of deserving the gift of existence. "Whether it is food or water, I would
feel that since I did not waste them yesterday, I am worthy of receiving
them today. Wasting would stop that flow between existence and me. Besides,
limiting your wants intensifies the experience. It keeps perception open
.Too much food or fun satiates."
Elimination, however, is only half the exercise. The other half
is to develop and cultivate opposite tendencies. For Ram
Mohan, "a sense of internal security "is crucial. For Vyas, it is developing
clarity about the value system. For me, the crucial question was self-esteem.
My sense of self was perilously shaky until I learnt through an insight
that I was whole and perfect. The realization of not needing to derive
my confidence from an external source freed me of all psychological needs,
which, in turn reduced my emotional overload.
But nirvana was far from sighted because I still had to contend with 16
years of conditioning wrought by depression and unhappiness. To rid myself
of my absentmindedness, disorganization and indifference, I had to venture
deep within myself to embark on yet another process of elimination.
Every time my inner growth registered a notch, the aperture through which
I viewed life widened. I began to see even more clearly that only simplification
could possibly safeguard universal welfare by eliminating all conflicts.
Take the most obvious casethe conflict between capitalism and the
environment. The conflict arises out of capitalism's profit-orientation
which leads it to see nature purely as an exploitable resource base, man
as either labor or consumer, and nations as markets. In its single-minded
pursuit of profits by generating and satisfying a potentially infinite
number of wants, capitalism ignores the fact that the Earth's resource
base is limited, that technology pollutes, and that mankind's spiritual
quest is hampered by this proliferating satisfaction of the senses. The
tottering stockpile of complexity it unleashes is not just destructiveit
is needless.
The only thing we can do to combat this is to reduce our own wants and
cut loose from the consumerist trap. What has already been seen to be
the route to individual happiness also becomes the route to that of the
environment. Says Diana L.Eck in her book Encountering God: "Many
think of (Mahatma) Gandhi's personal austerity, including his food and
dress, as one of his idiosyncrasies. For Gandhi, however, what one eats
and what one wears are the very first political decisions one makes. The
'personal' is the 'political'."
With capitalism's underbelly so clearly exposed, I made up my mind two
years ago to leave Society. My desperate quest for integration,
and through it happiness, militated against editing a magazine that favored
consumerism, capitalism's offspring.
It was a crucial crossroads for me. Departure from Society had meant letting
go of an editor's power and privileges. The issue was one of security,
for along with the job I has to part with the company house and car. But
I had known ever since I first started the quest that no matter how rocky
the road, turning back was not the answer. Accordingly, with nothing in
hand, and determined not to go back into a journalistic system that thrived
on advertising revenue and pursued bottomline compulsions through sensationalism,
I quit my job.
This
is where the relationship between faith and letting go became clear to
me. True, in the past three years, I had relinquished almost all control
over myself. I boomeranged back to the state of mind that prevailed before
my awakening. The painful task of acknowledging and releasing all my inbuilt
indifference, sloth, indiscipline without recourse to the motivations
of guilt and fear that had earlier served me, meant that I had to be willing
to stand still, allowing life to do with me as it pleased. It was faith
that came to my rescue, telling me that all would be well in the end.
And, in the most miraculous manner, all was indeed well. A day after I
left Society, I was offered a job with Life
Positive, out of the blue.
No one who wishes to walk along the path of simplicity can do so without
faith. For faith alone gives us the strength not to hold on to security,
not to take insurance against an unknown tomorrow. Only faith tells us
that tomorrow will be taken care of.
Ram Mohan experienced this sense of a bountiful universe
when he voluntarily became a bhikshu for seven years in Hardwar.
"It was a good experience because I not only realized how little you need,
but also that life takes care of you. Not only do you get what you want,
but if you don't, you learn how to do without it."
Some adopt the devotional approach. Nothing is ours, for all is God's.
Says Shantanand Saraswati, Shankaracharya of Jyotir Math in The Man
Who Wanted to Meet God: "The Isha Upanishad says that the universe
is permeated by the Absolute. Whatever one sees in creation, whatever
movesone should use it fully and enjoy this absolute everywhere,
but one should enjoy it with renunciation. One should not try to hold
it or covet it. One need not try to possess it. Enjoy it and give it up."
With every step, I understand ever more clearly that my life is guided
by a higher power, that not just external circumstances, but even my thoughts
and actions are in a sense "done " for me. I believe that I am being prepared
for the ultimate letting go of the sense of self itself.
The simple life is as much a necessity as a choice, but no less of a learning
experience for that. My aim upon entering it was to learn to value money
100 per cent and to adopt a way of life that was need-based and rational,
consonant with my lean budget. Instead of substituting money for time
and effort, I intended to reverse the equation.
Like Ram Mohan, I quickly realized how little I actually needed. Clothes
my mother and I had enough of. Shelter was temporarily provided by my
sister, into whose empty flat we moved, for she lived in a company house.
However, when she left her company two months after we moved in, we were
obliged to think of a long-term solution, buying a house, for instance.
No easy task in Bombay, but again I can take no credit of having accomplished
itand in the last few months we have had the enormous joy and satisfaction
of having our own home. But loan repayment has imposed a severe limitation
on our budget, which has helped me hone our lifestyle to utter simplicity.
Food dwindled into rice, wheat flour and vegetablesnot just affordable,
but positively busting with sattvic qualities, ideal for mental,
physical and spiritual well-being. Being traditional non-vegetarians,
meat is an occasional indulgence, rare enough not to disturb the budget.
We divested the maid of her cooking duties, which were assumed by my mother,
with me as undercook. Today, the food tastes better, my cooking skills
have improved, and we have saved a fortune in oil. Convenience food has
no place in our house, not even that urban catchall, white bread, which
we have replaced with delectable south Indian breakfast items.
Eating out is an indulgence, a sensuous experience, but fatal for digestion,
complexion, figure, health, and eventually, the environment. I am supported
in my belief by one Joseph Addison who says: "When I behold a fashionable
table set out in all its magnificence, I fancy that I see gouts and dropsy,
fevers and lethargy, with other innumerable distempers, lying in ambuscade
among the dishes. Nature delights in the most plain and simple diet."
The mystic-farmer, Masanobu Fukuoka, author of The One -Straw Revolution,
says:"When you no longer want to eat something tasty, you can taste the
real flavors of what ever your are eating."
Having surrendered the company car, travel is an expense, but I have no
compunction about buying a second-class railway pass rather than the usual
first class. My logic is that working at home saves me the rigors of daily
commuting. I also travel by bus or just walk. Today, I am more in touch
with life and mobile, in contrast to the days when I commuted on a lumbering
automobile, divorced from the world around me, while busily adding to
its pollution.
Straitened resources really unleash the creative juices. Take gifts: earlier,
they were uninventive and expedient; I simply gave away currency notes.
Today, neither my budget nor my values will allow me to practice that
sort of careless generosity. I am now more discriminating not just about
what to give but why to give. I refuse to be railroaded by social customs,
and I am, therefore, far more zestful about my gift. Besides, scarce money
must be made to yield maximum value.
However, I still have a lot to learn from my friend Mukta, a freelance
journalist. She makes up in terms of thought, time and effort, what she
cannot in terms of money. Her gifts are sensitive, practical, unusual
and delightful. I recall the beautiful door handle she gave me at my housewarming
(her canny eyes had noted the absence of one), varnished to safeguard
against the marsh air. It may not have been the most valuable gift I received
but it was certainly the most cherished.
I dream of the day when I will make my own gifts, calibrated to the taste,
need and temperament of the recipient, a testimony to the love and regard
I hold for the person.
Giving my fantasies free wing, I think about stitching own clothes, and
of gifting my friend's bouquets of the beautiful dried grasses that grow
so plentifully around my house instead of expensive hothouse flowers.
Unlike Man, whose products are both shoddy and expensive, nature charges
nothing for her perfect creations. I've kept my house relatively free
of adornments. Over time, I'm determined that nature alone shall have
the charge of beautifying it. Take away your serves, your Chippendale
and your Belgium cut glass. I'll do with potted plants, birds' nests and
dried flowers.
The more I streamlined my possessions, the more I learnt to give away.
Today, I'm consumed with the urge to divest myself of all save the bare
necessities, and give the rest to those who need them. Vimla Advani, a
friend, feels similarly. Her deceased mother has left her a house in Colaba,
Mumbai, the contents of which she intends to give away. "I don't need
anything," she says. "But the more I give away, the more I get."
That is one of the paradoxes of the simple life. It is the route to plenty.
Indu Kohli, a personal growth trainer, began 1997 by giving away all her
wardrobe disposable. "I've never hung on to what I cannot use," she says,"
and I've noticed I always get more than I give."
Ours was a civilization that revolved around the concept of simple living:
"want not" and "waste not" were its two watchdogs. Nothing, not even what
was in plenty, like coconuts in Kerala, was allowed to be wastefully used.
Clothes and footwear were severely rationed and expected to last, like
diamonds, forever.
Elud Sperling , head of the publishing house Inner Traditions, which specializes
in publishing spiritual texts, recalls his bemusement when he found that
the extensive joint family of the friend he was staying with disposed
of no more than a handful of garbage daily. The West is currently going
overboard over recycling but we've been doing it for centuries. Our mud
huts with their thatched roofs and cow dung-treated floors were in tune
with the needs of a tropical country. The natural material had inbuilt
climate control, while the cowdung was not just an antiseptic, it also
warmed the floor, making it safe to sleep on. Contrast it with the glass
and concrete structures we call home today. The alien material separates
us from nature, the concrete floors strike us with lumbago and rheumatism,
the air conditioning damages our respiratory system, and the artificial
lighting hurts our eyes.
For Kartik Vyas, eating naturally available, lightly cooked food helped
improve his digestion, his mental equilibrium, and changed his lifestyle.
Getting up early and going to bed early put him in harmony with nature,
which enhanced his harmony with people. Eventually, from being a lawyer,
he became a personal growth trainer. "Living simply has brought about
a fundamental shift in seeing that every aspect of life can take us to
growth, "he says.
"Human being are the only animals who have to work, and I think this is
the most ridiculous thing in the world," says Fukuoka. His prescription
for the good life is as radical as it is complete: surrender to nature,
for nature has ready-made all that we need. He argues that there would
have been no need for children to learn music if they had grown up among
the natural sounds of nature. And that local seasonal food is perfectly
attuned to the bodily needs of that time and place. Perfect harmony is
in the nature of Nature.
Fukuoka's central principle, echoed by both Advaita Vedanta and
Zen Buddhism, is that God (or nature) is all, and that man can neither
conquer it nor understand it. The purpose of life is to surrender to it,
and live unafraid and free, for nature lives our life for us. Dr Manu
Kothari, professor of anatomy at the G.S.Medical College, Mumbai, and
author of Dying Declaration of Mother Earth: Gaia's Will, says:
"Only food, water and air are your needs because they are you. The rest
is not you."
Jesus Christ had expounded on these same truths when he said: "Take no
thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor
yet for your body, what ye shall put on…. Your heavenly Father knoweth
that ye have need of all these things."
Contrast this with the contradictory complexities of modern life: capitalism,
globalization, liberalization, technology, the information revolution,
every one of our institutions has contributed to creating a network of
wants and counter wants. Technology has freed us of the need for physical
exercise, but has not found a solution to the health problem it has foisted
upon us, compelling us to either work them out in gyms or excise them
at the surgeon. To cope with capitalism's compulsive need to generate
wants and supply them, we have to work harder and harder, make more to
buy more and by paying more. Meanwhile, the stress and strain sends us
spinning into ill health or depression. Single incomes are laughable,
dual incomes barely sufficient. Pedaling the treadmill desperately to
survive, we ignore relationships, family, children, life itself. Our growing
unhappiness, alienation and loneliness rob life of its very meaning and
gradually everything falls apart.
I believe that the root of the problem lies in the western approach to
controlling life, through controlling external circumstances, unlike the
internal eastern approach that has always sought to control life through
controlling the self. Rather than attempting to satisfy limitless wants,
we would seek to limit our wants. Rather than inventing more and more
complex computers, we would develop our minds. It is the internal route
that, eventually, has lasting answers.
This reasoning, of course, not only turns western civilization upside
down, but our own as well. From being the shame that dare not seek its
name, poverty can actually be seen to be an elevating state. The movement
to simplicity is a process and it is evident in the very extremity of
today's complexity. As Parthan says: "The system is purging itself."
This is true even at the individual level. Simplicity cannot be forced.
It is meant to be a response to an inner urge. Depriving yourself of desires
before outgrowing them will only further inflame the mind. This explains
the seeming discrepancy on the issue of renunciation, insisted upon by
some spiritual masters, and criticized with equal vigor by others like
Osho. Parthan explains that point of view: "As long as you don't possess
possessions, you can have everything."
The New Age is often painted as a place where the material and the spiritual
meet, where it is possible to be both successful and happy. Wealth, like
everything else, is value neutral. If one makes and, more importantly,
spends money keeping universal welfare at heart, it can be a beneficial,
not destructive force. The danger is that a narrow perspective will not
pull this off, rendering the slogan just another glib way of chasing money
without having to feel guilty about it. No harm in that, of course, but
it will delay your transition to simplicity and the happiness that lurks
within.
Are you willing to wait?
Reader's Comments
Subject: suma article - 26 August 2009
such a good article regarding life,which gives you insight sipurality,modert living without any pretenction
by: narendra kumar
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