Personal Growth - Moving from head to heart
by Suma Varughese
Because it is ego-driven, head thinking can often be delusory. Heart thinking is focused on reality and therefore unlikely to go too wrong
When
Carl Jung, the great psychoanalyst, went to Taos Peublo in New Mexico
in 1925, he met the chief of the native people, Ochwiay Biano. Biano told
Jung that according to his people, the Whites were 'mad'-uneasy, restless,
always wanting something.
Jung asked him why he thought they were mad, and the chief replied that
it was because they thought with their heads, a sure sign of mental illness
among his tribe. Jung asked him how he thought and he pointed to his heart.
The response plunged Jung into a deep introspection that enabled him to
see his race from outside himself and realise how much of the race's character
was within him.
Ever since I read this fascinating excerpt I have been pondering over
the difference between heart thinking and head thinking. Most gurus and
spiritual teachings exhort us to make this very transition-from head to
heart. But what does it actually mean? For most head thinkers this appears
to be an inferior state of mind.
They fear that they are being asked to surrender their reason and descend
to some level of gibbering infantilism, where they are expected to accept
anything told to them without a whimper. Naturally, they clutch at their
minds with renewed determination.
However,
heart thinking is at a level higher than reason, not lower. And it is
not opposed to reason. The difference is that it does not allow reason
the star role it plays in head thinking. Heart thinking arrives at conclusions
through faculties other than the mind, but it will use the mind to articulate
these conclusions, and even validate them. So what are these faculties?
Most of us would call it intuition-a knowing that seems to come from the
very depth of our being, from every cell in our body. Unlike the logic-driven
processes of the mind, this knowledge seeps into our being and the certainty
of knowing is utterly indisputable. The conclusions that the head arrives
at can never give us that level of deep-rooted certainty, particularly
in matters of ethics,
values, decision-making and behavioral choices.
For instance, many of us who penetrate the spiritual dimension of life
make dramatic job changes which make no sense from the point of view of
the head. I just met a young man who left his lucrative software job in
the US to work for a spiritual organization. I know of IIT graduates who
have renounced plush mainstream jobs in order to devote themselves to
the betterment of villages.
What about people who make decisions to become monks and renunciate against
their familial and social pressure? What gives them the courage to throw
everything to the wind? It is the courage that comes from following the
dictates of heart. So what are the main differences between head and heart
thinking?
One of the most fundamental differences, I believe, is that head thinking
is fractured and separatist, while heart thinking is holistic. I have
been doing some research for the forthcoming LP Plus issue on Gandhi and
what is obvious is that Gandhian thinking can only be accessed by those
who have moved from the head to the heart.
For head thinkers he comes across as an anti-progressive crank. Heart
thinkers, on the other hand, worship him as a fount of wisdom, whose solutions
to the country's problems at the social, environmental, economic and political
levels were pragmatic, down-to-earth and in the best interests of society
and the environment.
The radical difference in the two perceptions arise from the fact that
Gandhian thinking is holistic, which means that it emerges from one root
and radiates in all directions, somewhat like the spokes of a wheel.
Gandhi's advocacy of khadi, his focus on economic and political
self-reliance for the village, his repudiation of western civilization,
the political weapons of Satyagraha, his focus on ahimsa, his preference
for frugality and simplicity, all have an internal consistency not accessible
to those who try and understand it from the head.
Head thinking
is fractured. It will look at one aspect of a situation at a time and
draw conclusions based on that, while ignoring others. Modern civilization
is a perfect example of head thinking, for all its systems are based
on separatism.
Modern-day economics is a striking example of the limitations of separatist
thinking. Capitalism, for instance, is motivated primarily by the profit
factor, which means that many of its decisions can be and are unethical,
unprincipled and even inhuman. In this scheme of things, the best way
to improve the bottomline is to sack the employee.
But this decision does not take into consideration the psychological
and emotional cost to the individual, nor of its larger repercussions
on society. It follows that heart thinking is balanced while head thinking
is not. Because the former keeps the whole in mind, its approach is
measured and pragmatic, unlikely to damage any aspect of life.
Head thinking is given to drama, to extreme measures. Violent revolutions
such as those that took place in France and later in Russia were dictated
by head thinking and not heart thinking. Because heart thinking is holistic,
it is also down-to-earth, here and now. It is not focused on abstract
theories and formulas, it looks at each situation as it is and arrives
at solutions. It is simple.
Head thinking, on the other hand, gives rise to endless complexities,
for it is unable to see things as they are. Hence there will be contingency
plans for everything, uniform rules and regulations for all situations
no matter how dissimilar (such as, for instance, insisting that your
16-year-old returns home after a party at the same time as she did when
she was 12) and extremely complicated procedures.
Try and make sense of any of our modern systems-political, economic
or scientific-without being an expert. The mind simply boggles. Why?
Because of head thinking. Can you imagine that at one time, life was
actually comprehensible to the average man? Today, most us, if not all,
find it impossible to understand modern life. This is the unnecessary
complexity of head thinking.
At the head level, one arrives at truths through logic and reason, such
as understanding that two and two makes four. But the truths of the
heart, which are really the truths about life, are resonated to. When
you encounter such a truth, your whole being reverberates in response.
I remember participating in a psychoanalytical group for a while.
The facilitator was a brilliant man; we particularly admired the facile
way he rounded up the discussions by pointing how one subject had led
to another, and how it all added up to a particular picture. And yet,
I never could figure how he arrived at the conclusions he did. Later,
we were taught by a writer.
Everything she said seemed to me wise and true. I could resonate with
everything that she said in contrast to the bafflement I felt in the
case of our analyst. I then came to realize that the analyst was drawing
pretty pictures in his head, without too much concern with whether they
correlated to reality. Because it is ego-driven, head thinking can often
be delusory.
Heart thinking is focused on reality and therefore unlikely to go too
wrong. There are probably far more profound differences between heart
and head thinking, for I feel I am still scratching at the surface.
If you can think of any, write in. Let's have a dialogue on the matter.
Reader's Comments
Subject: Heart or Head - 25 April 2013
Well, all of this makes for some interesting thought, but I cannot buy anything supernatural. I really cannot see if these guys are selling religion or WHAT?? All I know is, you better know the law and follow it, or they will lock you up. If you don‘t make money, you will starve and be More...
by: Bob Burnitt
Subject: Intelligence - 10 September 2012
Isn‘t heart-thinking just what happens if you‘re dumb? That is to say, heart-thinking was invented as an illusory compensation for a lack of innate intelligence.
by: Brown
Subject: Head thinkers vs heart thinkers - 25 May 2012
Interesting article and interesting comments. I think that what strikes me most about the comments is that it is rather easy to identify who thinks with their hearts and who is still attached to head thinking. The head thinkers rationalize. In their rational minds, they see hearts and heads as More...
by: Matt
Subject: Socialism - 21 May 2012
Came across this article while looking for head vs heart. Very enlightening. I wanted to add one point. India‘s tryst with socialism was disastrous because it saw the role of the rich in poor light. It never appreciated the role an skills of the rich to generate value t the economy. Heart More...
by: Krishna
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