When we pursue happiness, it eludes you. However, when you recognise that happiness is the natural state of the soul, all you need is to eliminate all that comes between your happiness and you.
A
good actor can hide behind his role but his handwriting will give away
his secrets. Your handwriting can reveal a personality
flaw or an illness for which an expert like Dr Anand Minocha can recommend
handwriting therapy
and writing exercises
When Dr Anand Swaroop Minocha was a medical student, a chance encounter
with a book on graphology introduced him to a vocation that would overtake
his life and become his Holy Grail. Even though he went on to become a
neurosurgeon, what Minocha tested were claims made about graphology as
a tool for diagnosis and treatment of personality and pathological disorders,
as a bio-feedback technique and as a remedial measure for psychological
problems. In short, handwriting therapy. He began with his own handwriting
and later crosschecked with real patients to authenticate his findings.
The connection
between a person's handwriting and the brain seems simple but Minocha
quickly points out: "The connection holds even if the foot or the
mouth is used for writing."
There is
an empirical basis to graphology that was revealed only through recent
research, although references to it are found as far back as the third
century BC in Aristotle's perceptions about the importance of handwriting.
A Frenchman, Abbe Michon, coined the term 'graphology' in 1872 from
the Greek grapho or 'to write' and later, a child psychologist,
Wilhelm Preyer, philosopher, Ludwig Klages, and another psychiatrist,
George Meyer approached it from the perspective of the 'total individual'.
In the 1930s,
research conducted at the Harvard University proved that handwriting is
a significant and accurate measure of individual personality. Today, graphology
is taught as a science in American universities and used as an analytical
tool. One of the most common uses of graphology is to test personality
traits when hiring people for jobs that need specific character inputs.
Latent personality disorders do not emerge during routine job interviews
and later, it may be too late.
According to Minocha, a person's signature is the map that defines his
personality. Signatures and handwriting are as individual as fingerprints.
A graphologist can even detect forgery.
But what
do you look for when you analyze someone's handwriting? Minocha says
there are many aspects that need scrutiny and study. "One would
evaluate features such as the size and shape of letter forms, the slant,
the margins used, spacing between letters, words and lines, connective
forms, rhythm, evenness, beginning and end strokes and the regular signature
of the person."
The most
amazing aspect of graphology is that it can be used as a scientific
tool to detect, diagnose and eventually treat diseases. Unfortunately,
it has not yet been taken seriously enough for extensive R&D. "I
look forward to the day when patients will leave for pathological tests
a sample of their handwriting and signature," says Minocha. But
he is a lone crusader in India where graphology remains mainly a fad
and a party icebreaker.
To popularize
graphology, Minocha holds classes and workshops and teaches it by correspondence
also. In 1995, he established the Graphological Research Organisation
for aWareness (GROW), with a team of professionals who offer expertise
in their own fields.
Graphology
can certainly play a crucial role in child development so that a great
deal of future sorrow is nipped in the bud. Think of the remedial measures
that can be taken with a child just beginning to form his personality!
Aggression, timidity, health problems that are germinating due to unknown
reasons can be detected, corrected or pre-empted.
GROW is researching
handwriting in Indian languages that will reflect the psyche and inherent
characteristics of entire communities. "The Devnagari (the
official Indian) script reveals so much about us. The main body of the
script is in the center, heavy and ponderous, with the maatras
(vowel symbols) written in downward strokes to meet the alphabets. Then,
most Devnagari letters are left-sided or center-aligned, with very
few that face right," says Minocha.
Dr Minocha maintains that each of us is trapped in our habits and ego
and that we are forever searching for a means to move towards the freedom
of enlightenment and happiness. If we are wise we will foster all our
good qualities, filling up the troughs in our nature so that we can flow
on. By being true to ourselves, by holding to our soul. But before we
can find wisdom, we have to know our true nature and here is where handwriting
analysis helps.
There are
four main motivational symbols that determine the uniqueness of our
temperament and disposition:
THE
CIRCLE
The circle is the symbol of love. It signifies all rounded forms, including
the semi-circular and loop variations. Round objects satisfy and soothe.
Fruits, the wheel, planets and their courses are all circular or elliptical.
There
are two aspects of love. The first includes pleasurable feelings like
playfulness, companionship, affection and devotion, acceptance and compassion.
The other aspect is negative and induces self-indulgence, resentment,
jealousy, envy, possessiveness and greed. Playfulness can be replaced
by manipulation, threats and other corrupt practices.
A circular
handwriting indicates the need for relating to people as a basis for
living. The motivation here is to share feelings, togetherness and playfulness.
A predominantly
circular form in your handwriting reveals a person who shuns violence
and arguments and would rather play than fight. When this natural instinct
is unfulfilled or distorted, it leads to hatred, sorrow, sadism, narcissism
and other negative reactions. The rounded form is comparable to the
nature of water.
THE SQUARE
To preserve our natural need for love, sharing and playfulness, we also
need a safe shape. This is the square. The house you live in, the child's
cot, building blocks, a plot of land, boxes and cupboards are all squares.
In fact, a square is a modified circle.
People
who use square forms in their handwriting need or have the ability to
ensure safety, regularity and maintenance. They start with a strong
foundation and build up relationships, positions, and bank balances.
They are also able to safeguard against harm or from interfering poachers.
Squares
also indicate a need to plan, organize, be methodical and follow through
each step of a project until a desired objective is achieved. On the
one hand, 'square' people are dependable and constructive but they can
also become defensive, artificial, dominating and at times lose touch
with their feelings, thereby defeating their goal of comfort and preservation.
The square
also denotes the need to cover up and stick to conventions. Such people
are practical, self-sufficient, independent, reserved, non-spontaneous
and embarrassed when asked personal questions.
On the negative
side, they can be hypocritical, stiff and hard, closed-minded, and unable
to take risks. The desire to preserve safety at any cost can end up in
their sacrificing the context in order to preserve an outer form. The
square is a man-made symbol.
THE TRIANGLE
The triangle implies aggression, libido, dynamism, achievement and will.
Users of triangles are controlled, tense, cautious, energetic, resolute,
principled, rational, persevering and able to overcome resistance.
The triangle
is the most powerful generator of excitement. The sexual instinct is
the primordial form of the triangle, so it is also a phallic symbol.
People
who favor this shape in their handwriting are always probing, exploring,
releasing energy. Depicted by the knife, gun, elevator, airplane and
stairs, these people are instinctive leaders, take up challenges, generate
ideas and want to solve problems. They have a natural sharpness of thought,
resent wasting time and cannot suffer laggards. They are action-oriented,
avoid unnecessary details and are impatient. Their overall attitude
is defined by aggressiveness and if properly channelized, achieve excellent
results. Sporting or competitive activities work in their favor.
Negatively
charged, such people can be violent, neurotic and destructive, with
strong criminal tendencies.
THE
SQUIGGLE
It is the symbol of imagination. The squiggle is an unfamiliar form
created by a unique combination of the circle, the square and the triangle.
People who use this form in their handwriting appear to be saying that
they would like to know more about 'reality', to probe the unknown.
They wish to create and are able to expand, observe and contribute their
own vision and insight.
Such
people spend time on lofty thoughts beyond and above mundane existence.
They tend to romanticize, spiritualize, philosophize and create a new
dimension to find fullness in life. Their deepest satisfaction lies
in the creative use of their imagination in ideals, abstract art and
writing. Musicians,
philosophers, dramatists,
poets
and writers
belong to this category.
Such people
reject protocol and superficialities. They evaluate people and things
by their intrinsic value rather than by social standards, creating their
own yardsticks. These people can 'see' beyond their immediate confines.
But squigglers
must always remember to act upon their dreams because the negative consequences
of this motivation are withdrawal syndromes, neurotic behavior, psychosis
or aggressiveness.
photographs by Martin Louis
SCRIPT
A NEW YOU
Your
handwriting not only provides a tool for analyzing your personality, it
can also be used as a means of improving your life. Here are some handwriting
exercises to help you grow and develop positively:
To reduce tension and improve spontaneity, do the following pattern two
to three pages a day with the right hand and one to two pages a day with
the left hand (reverse the order for left-handers).
To
induce fighting spirit, decisiveness, the ability to withstand pressure
and build inner resistance, do the following pattern on two pages with
each hand everyday.
To improve coordination between mind and body, try the following
exercise.
To
improve concentration and receptiveness, write in the following manner-two
pages with your right hand and one page with the left hand.
To change pessimism to optimism, write in lines as shown below,
up to five pages.
To
improve your sense of rhythm and reduce thinking on habitual patterns,
do this.
If you feel your life is colorless, try writing with different
colored pens.
To increase utilization of your potential, write holding your pen
in the left hand if you are right-handed and vice-versa or even by holding
it in your mouth or toes.
To get new perspectives on your activities, start writing with
a paintbrush or in a different script than the one you normally use.