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has been an engineer, an economist and a teacher. Now he claims he is
completing the unlived part of his life with his first novel, The Ascetic
of Desire. One of the few practicing psychoanalysts in India, Dr Sudhir
Kakar is better known for his non-fictional works on psychoanalysis, Indian
sexuality and indigenous healing traditions. His latest work is a fictional
account of the life of Vatsyayana, author of ancient India's sexual treatise
Kamasutra. Set in the opulent Gupta period, it covers a wide range
of subjects on Indian erotica-from incest, homosexuality and infidelity
to food, trade and exorcists. In an interview in New Delhi with Arundhati
Mitra, the soft-spoken, unassuming scholar speaks about his work and
interests. Psychotherapy and spirituality are converging, each being enriched
by the other.
What made you choose
Vatsyayana's life as the theme for your novel?
A psychoanalyst is also a theoretician of sexual desires. Vatsyayana's
association with erotica made him a natural choice for me. I was fascinated
by the mystery surrounding his life. Very little is known about him. This
gave a much fuller rein to my imagination. Besides, I thought this would
be a nice opportunity to interplay Vatsyayana's ancient sexuality with
modern theories. Kamasutra was just a peg for meditation on eroticism.
So you wanted to make a comparative study of ancient and modern sexuality?
No, not a study really. Kamasutra is familiar. So is sexuality.
How do you make it unfamiliar again? You can either go into ethnography
of a tribe that does very different things or into a time in history,
where it was all very different and start questioning what sexuality or
sexual desire is. I chose an ancient time to make that which is familiar
somewhat more puzzling, a bit unfamiliar again.
How much of the psychoanalyst influenced the novelist?
As much as the novelist has influenced the psychoanalyst in the previous
writings. You always write what you have experienced. If I wrote a book
on the basis of my theoretical readings, it would be mechanical. My personal
experiences add life to my writings.
What is the basic message of Kamasutra?
To give eroticism a greater place in the scheme of life along with artha,
moksha and so on. But it does not imply libertinism. Kamasutra
has a lot of dharma (of sexuality) and dharma leads to spirituality.
It tells you that there are certain things you should not do but if you
want to do it then do it this way. It's the Indian way of saying that nothing
is absolutely right or wrong. That way it professes some subordination to
the whole scheme of the person and is not independent of him.
Was sex always a taboo in India?
Actually, there are two factors here. First, there is the Indian tradition
itself where there is a conflict between the ideals of eroticism and ascetic
celibacy. A conflict which eroticism has almost always lost, except in the
Gupta period of Vatsyayana. Which is why I selected this period for the
book. I'm for the erotic rather than the celibate. Secondly, the middle
class was under the Victorian Puritanical influence, which strengthened
the ascetic ideals of the Indian tradition. People believed that since the
western political and economic institutions were better, perhaps their moral
institutions were also better.
Is the ascetic tradition responsible for the prevailing attitude towards
erotica?
I think that has much to do with it. I don't know whether history, or rather
reported history, is true. All the great ascetics with exceptions of course,
tirade against sexuality. There have been changes as well. Rajneesh (Osho)
was certainly one. But that tradition, which was there, has been suppressed.
How different is Freudian concept of sexuality from Kamasutra's
philosophy?
Eroticism in Freud is much more of the mind. Kamasutra has much more
to do the bodywhat pleases it and what doesn't.
How different is the western concept of erotica from its eastern counterpart?
There is really no single western concept. (Pauses) Well, Freudianism is
one. Then there is the western sexology. The whole Masters-Johnsonian era,
which is very similar to the Kamasutra. This (Freud) would be a little
different. I think the western kind has greater independence from morality,
unlike India. Here morality and sexuality are fused together.
Do you think that now there is a shift in focus vis-à-vis morality?
There is a change coming. At present, the middle class is the vehicle of
this change. It is moving towards the western concept that talks of a sexuality
free from any restraint. But a lot of work is still required to elaborate
on a sexual norm for modern India. We should not remove it too far from
our own cultural experiences. Otherwise there would again be a divide: on
the one side the great ascetic idealism and on the other a completely erotic
idealism. It is very difficult to say which direction it is going in.
In
India, people would much rather turn to religion than a psychiatrist...
Yes,
very much so. The greatest attraction of our religious practices is psychotherapy.
People don't turn to religion for what you call salvation or but mostly to get
rid of pain or distress. Your Shamans, Mystics and Doctors dealt with a lot of
mumbo-jumbo. You don't think such things work? On the contrary,
I do think such things work. If you think that the pain and distress is coming
from a source outside yourself, you need healers who share your worldview to stop
those forces. But if you believe your problems and distress are coming from inside,
then all this won't work.
Would you recommend a patient to go to
such a healer?
Well, the patient who comes to me has already selected the kind of therapy
he wants. But many patients do come with a strong belief that their pain
is external. In that case, there are two strategies. One is to remind
them of their own tradition that all their kam (desire), krodh
(anger), lobh (greed), moh (attachment) is internal. Then
you can treat them with psychotherapy by changing their worldview from
external to internal. Or you send them to a pir, fakir or
an exorcist. I have sent patients to such healers when I felt they would
be of better help.
Do you practice any of
the alternative therapies?
No. Therapy is like music. If you are trained in a particular gharana,
you should not mix it with any other. What
role does spirituality play in your work? Spirituality is entering the
field of psychotherapy not as part of the existing schools but as new schools.
In my own field, psychoanalysis, however, it does not play any role.
In PsychotherapyEast and West, Alan Watts says that eastern religions
are thinly veiled psychotherapy. What do you think? I agree with him
partly. The basic offer of eastern spirituality is psychotherapeutic, a relief
from mental distress. True spirituality in the sense of 'self-realization' is
a much longer road and can only begin after the psychotherapeutic function has
been successfully performed.
Increasingly, western psychotherapy is turning to eastern spirituality.
How significant will this be in the New Age?
The basic difference between psychotherapy and spirituality revolves around
the biography of a person. Spirituality ignores it. It is more teleological
and concerned with the future. In psychotherapy, the patient's past is
an important aspect of diagnosis. Actually the West's fascination with
the East is not new. Jung has already discussed it. But they are more
interested in exploring the second stage that I talked of earlier, the
'self-realization'.
What is your next novel about?
(Laughs) I can't tell you that. It'll take away the suspense.
DHARMA
OF KAMA
'Acharya,
is eroticism then a separate realm of existence altogether, serving no
other god but its own?' I asked.
'No,' Vatsyayana said. 'Kama (sex) may be incompatible with dharma
but like the latter it too is subordinate to the highest goal of man's
lifethe unity with the supreme soul in moksha. Just as the
dedicated musician endeavors to reach moksha through the subtlest experience
of sound, the erotic man, the kami, strives for the same goal through
the highest refinements of touch. The Nad-Brahman (ultimate
music) of the musician has its counterpart in the Sparsh-Brahman
(ultimate touch) of the kami. Because of the power of sexual excitement
which creates a tumult in the smallest atoms of a man's or woman's being,
shakes up the whole body-mind-soul system, frees the lover for a moment
from the karma of all past lives, the kami with his sensuality
is better situated than the yogi with his asceticism to cross the gulf
from the human to divine, to become enlightened, as the Buddhists would
say.
He closed his eyes. 'Let us now contemplate for a while this most profound
of human experiences which touches us with the breath of the sacred, blesses
us with the revelation of the true nature of things.'
Obediently, I shut my eyes to meditate together on the essence of Lord
Kama (god of erotica) and the gravity of the vision he bestows
upon us. What I received from the god were images of Malavika that I had
never let myself see before: Malavika lying naked on the grass under a
tree in the forest clearing, uneven strips of sunlight let in through
the leaves playfully gliding over her body; Malavika standing waist-deep
in the pond, droplets of water glistening on her taut breasts as she raised
her arms to take a shell comb from the hair gathered high at back of her
head; and then all I saw was her face, flushed with pleasure and with
her eyes shut tight, her uneven, quickened breathing infused with the
god's own breath.
Excerpted with permission from The Ascetic of
Desire