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Dr Bindeshwar Pathak, Founder, Sulabh International
In spirituality lies the essence of happiness," says Dr Bindeshwar Pathak,
founder of Sulabh International Social Service Organization, considered one of
the biggest NGOs in India and a pioneer in low-cost sanitation. In 1969 Dr Pathak
was entrusted a special job by a committee set up during the Gandhi centenary
celebrations in Patna, India. The committee aimed to liberate scavengers. Fascinated
by the idea, he read literature on public health and hygiene, including books
on disposal of night soil in rural areas. The committee failed to make an impact.
But Pathak did. He resigned from the committee and designed a flush toilet, which
functioned without being connected to the sewerage system. This was the beginning
of Sulabh Shauchalaya.
Dr
Pathak has since been honored with Padma Bhushan, the International Saint Francis
Prize for the Environment, the NRI Gold Award and the most recent Dubai International
Award for Best Practices to Improve the Living Environment 2000.
Says
he: "Life cannot be happy and fulfilling without spirituality. Whoever is
spiritual will think differently from a non-spiritual person. And depending on
the line of thought a person follows, the fruits are borne accordingly. It's God
who decides life for us as we are mere pawns in his hands."
But
he cautions: "It's important to note that spirituality and religion are two
different things. And combining them can be disastrous." Citing an example,
he states: "(Lord) Rama exercised his powers with spirituality and bhakti
(faith) and vanquished Ravana(epic character in the Ramayana) . But Ravana,
although an extremely religious person, combined his powers with ego and that
was his undoing."
Born into an upper-caste family in Bihar,India, Dr Pathak makes a rueful observation:
"The sad fact is that a newborn child is tied into three bonds-religion,
caste and thought. And on growing up it's difficult for him to come out of any
of these. But whoever does, is a great man. And in a sense becomes one with God."
He recalls an incident when he had gone to the Somnath temple and tears
rolled down his cheeks for several minutes. "I had lost myself in God. And
a similar incident occurred at home. One can't express these experiences in words."
Dr Pathak is a keen observer. "In life I have learnt a lot by what I
read or from people I meet and interact with," he says. But no, he's never
followed a guru. "We look for God in others but not in our own self. As for
me, I do introspection and that's the main aim of being spiritual."
Although he watches television programs of Asaram Bapu and Dada Vaswani, Dr Pathak
finds Osho very convincing. "I am impressed by his thoughts and sayings.
For instance, he says, the body has mind, mind has intellect and in intellect
is enlightenment (chaitanya). Toh jiski chetna jaag jaati hai, woh insaan hi
duniya ko dekh aur bhog sakta hai. Aur woh hi bhagwan ko prapt kar sakta hai (Only
he who has been enlightened can realize life and God). How philosophical!"
he comments.
As far as Sulabh is concerned, sanitation has been
treated as dharma. "Dharma means vishwas (belief)," he opines. "Sanitation
is our religion and human development is thought of as karma and spirituality.
I believe that whatever we are doing in this birth will be paid for in the next.
What we all are going through is of the past birth. In our organization we have
a system of a morning prayer."
The
best teaching, he feels, is to create sensitivity and sensibility in a person.
Dr Pathak is credited with introducing the idea of obtaining biogas from
human excreta. Despite heavy odds, he set up the first biogas plant in Patna,
India, in 1982, after six years of research. Today, more than 60 biogas
plants are operational in Bihar, Uttar Pradesh, Gujarat and other states in India.
"Lack of sanitation and hygiene is a national health hazard. And it should
be tackled on a war footing. The subject of toilets is much more important than
any other social challenge."
A quiet reformer, he believes "it's a misconception that business and ethics
can't go together. Right from the inception if you decide that you will not use
unfair means, your business will flourish and whatever the hardships, you'll overcome
them. But if the foundation is laid on dishonesty and distrust, no business can
survive for long. But money certainly can't buy peace or happiness".
In
his pursuits and ambitions, the crusader under went hardships but remained positive.
"Whenever you feel something is not going in your favor, you feel unhappy.
The first rule is to go back from where you began. You'll find you were better
off. Go through your achievement list. You'll feel better and positive. Whoever
sees that remains happy but if you try to go beyond your means, you'll feel melancholic.
Moreover, trust in God minimizes sufferings. If burdens are left to Him, they
are taken care of." Continues
Dr Pathak: "Contentment is also a feeling. Who's unhappy on what front who
knows? Difficulties after all are not just related to oneself. Your work and family
are as much a part. It may not be your creation, but since it's related, it affects
you. But don't let negative thoughts come in. And when they do, faith in spirituality
helps. I can't say I'm an extremely happy person. But yes, I try to remain happy
and content."