Mahatma Gandhi - Feminist sage?
by Aparna Jacob
M.K. Gandhi is known to be one of the few people who encouraged women's active participation in the freedom struggle-marking him as a rare promoter of women's liberation. But how do his ideals of womanhood appeal to the modern woman?
Gandhi.
That old 'g' word. Now dulled like long-used gold. Yet one that is still
hailed as the panacea for all human ills. Including those of the enslaved
lot known as the Indian women.
Believing he was the compass that would guide them to the path of emancipation,
they would come to him in locust-droves to listen in rapt attention
as the half-clad man spoke. Why, I wonder.
"Because he listened to them," explain several smug Gandhians and faithfuls.
"Something society has rarely done," they throw in for good measure.
And paradoxical as it may seem, they insist that the nation's patriarch
did have solutions for the salvation of womankind.
"Gandhi must be approached as a reformer of humanity," explains activist
Jaya Jaitly. "By liberating himself from sexual desires, he'd transcended
the line dividing man and woman."
Reason enough to listen.
Prominent Gandhian Nirmala Deshpande elaborates on Gandhi's choice of
women as his best crusaders: "Gandhi crowned the Indian woman as the
incarnation of ahimsa and lauded her incredible power to endure
as her greatest strengths."
I
bristle. Isn't this self-effacing, long-suffering Indian woman the pitiful
product of a deeply patriarchal Indian culture? And isn't the glorification
of the subservient aspects of women just another means to bind her in
her own weaknesses? And should that also explain the setting up of ideals
of womanhood such as Sita, Savitri or Draupadi?
"These mythological figures are revered and related to by 75 per cent
of India, mainly the rural women," explains Jaitly.
"In the interior regions of UP and Bihar, there are fabulous and progressive
interpretations of these characters. Gandhi used these to strike the right
chord among women."
Behind Gandhi's setting up of 'chaste and pure' Sitas and Savitris as
role models is the fact that he equated the nobility of womanhood with
absolute sexlessness.
Says Deshpande: "By asking women to attain control over their sexuality,
he showed how she could assert her right over her body, refusing even
her husband. By choosing to be a celibate,
she wouldn't have to pledge her body to a man."
A celibate herself, this septuagenarian cites from her own experience:
"By renouncing sex,
one can channel one's energies towards higher goals. Gandhi encouraged
those who wanted to lead a socially useful life to stay unmarried. Because
married individuals channel their altruism only towards their immediate
relations."
Dr Savita Singh, deputy director of Gandhi Smriti and Darshan Samiti,
Delhi, clarifies: "Gandhi did not reject marriage.
But he stressed sexual restraint. He advocated abstinence as the best
form of birth control, a veritable solution to our population crisis."
Point taken.
Those approaching
Gandhi for the first time are apt to notice the patriarchal conservatism
inherent in the political and social role he envisioned for women.
For instance, he decreed: " Nature has made men and women different, so it is necessary to maintain a difference
between the education of the two."
Ergo, he concluded: "It is a woman's right to rule the home. Man is
the master outside it."
But what if a woman does not want to rule the home? Should the Marie
Curies and P.T. Ushas of the world be relegated to the kitchen and nappies?
Madhu Kishwar, editor of Manushi, a journal about women and society,
critiques: "He saw male and female in terms of the 'active-passive'
syndrome, which has been an ideological device for denying women any
chance to acquire power in the family
or the society."
She continues: "The unjust domination of woman by man that Gandhi
thought he opposed is something inherent in the very role that he envisaged
for her-that of being a 'complement' to man. 'They are equals in life,
but their functions differ', was how he saw it."
Gandhi's views on women with a career seem equally acerbic.
Kishwar points out: "Gandhi could not envisage the wife following an
avocation independently of her husband. He felt that the care of the
children and the upkeep of the household are quite enough to fully engage
all her energies."
Not something that would go down well with today's woman, who straddles
both home and a career. In Gandhian perspective, a modern nuclear family
where both the partners participate equally in household chores as well
as career management, was clearly not an option worth considering.
Dr Singh does not agree: "Because of her childbearing functions, a woman
is at times compelled to stay home. But ground realities today demand
that women step out of their homes and become breadwinners. In fact,
as far back as 1920, Gandhi was talking of equal wages for women."
Deshpande observes: "One cannot expect rural women to make radical changes
in their lives. They had to look after their homes. But he gave these
unskilled, illiterate women the charkha and
khadi as an economic solution."
"It was with a remarkable insight that Gandhi, without challenging their
traditional role, could make women an important social base for the
movement."
Adds Deshpande: "And they were handed their rights as equal citizens
when the country became free. They didn't have to fight for voting rights
and property rights like their western counterparts."
So, how has Gandhi affected the status of the modern Indian woman, both
urban and rural? According to Dr Singh, even though the modern urban
woman considers herself liberated, it is rarely in terms of the Gandhian
ideal. And, sadly enough, in rural India, the girl child is still being
killed.
"Gandhi had given India a blueprint for development," says Dr Singh.
"Including the upliftment of the nation's women. But today, a girl child
is still deprived of education.''
But, while Indian women are grateful for the fundamental rights Gandhi
procured for them, there's ambivalence over the pertinence of his ascribed
tenets for women's emancipation. Perhaps it is time to get some real
answers.