When we pursue happiness, it eludes you. However, when you recognise that happiness is the natural state of the soul, all you need is to eliminate all that comes between your happiness and you.
In
this age of cynicism and fragmentation, one woman, born in an obscure
south Indian village to poor fisher folk, has mesmerized the world with
her potent message of active loving and giving. Amma,
as she is affectionately called, hugs
the world and the world hugs her back in tearful joy
Millions
of people from all over the world and all walks of life flock to meet
Mata Amritanandamayi Devi, affectionately known as 'Amma' or 'Ammachi',
meaning Mother. What is the secret of her magnetic attraction and power?
According
to Amma, it is "pure selfless love".
Swamini
Krishnamrita Prana, Amma's disciple, agrees. An Australian, she first
heard about Amma while staying at an ashram near Mumbai, India. She
was in for a great surprise when she met Ammachi. She had seen only
gurus who sat on pedestals at a safe distance from devotees who had
to be content with touching the guru's sandals. But here was a guru
who hugged her with unconditional love and warmth at first sight.
Swamini
Krishnamrita describes how Amma once healed a leper by sucking the pus
and blood from his sores. Such is her infinite compassion. In the words
of Swami Amritaswarupananda Puri, Amma's first sanyasi(monk)
disciple: "Here is a mystic accessible to anyone and everyone with
whom you can converse and in whose presence you can feel God."
UNFLAGGING
ENERGY
Amma has been known to spend as many as 20 to 30 hours at a stretch,
hugging devotees and visitors at her congregations. Clad in a snow-white
sari, the beaming Amma literally holds thousands to her bosom, whispering
in their ears, "my child," "darling son" or "darling
daughter", listening to their troubles and their deepest spiritual
longings, without pause for food or even a sip of water.
Amma treats
everyone alike, from the billionaire to the beggar, from the newborn
to the elderly, from the antagonist to the ardent admirer. According
to Swamini Atma Prana: "Each person who goes to see Amma, even
if he or she be the seven-thousandth person in the darshan (divine
glimpse) queue, will receive the same attention from her." This
familiar closeness is so moving that many burst out in tears.
Asked once
whether she felt tired after giving darshan for so many hours
on end to thousands of people, Amma replied: "Where there is love,
there is no effort." She adds: "When you give more, your coffers
are always full. You acquire the double of what you give."
HUGGING
CREATION
Intrigued by this unusual guru, The Los Angeles Times asked Amma: "Why
do you hug people?" She replied: "This question is like asking
the river, 'why are you flowing?' Does anyone ask his or her mother,
'why do you hug me?'" she replied. During a memorable discussion,
the BBC had a doubt: "You hug millions of people all over the world,
who hugs you?" The answer was: "The entire creation hugs me."
The 'hugging
saint' has an explanation for her own famous hug: "From the outside
it looks like an ordinary hug. But when Amma hugs people, she is transmitting
a bit of her spiritual energy into them, which will help them feel Divine
Love and open up more." Bill Schekner of the CBS also wrote that
Amma's hug is an expression of the need to embrace the world and flood
it with love.
Amma never
forgets to emphasize the need for love. In a live interview aired on July
10, 2001, the NBC Today show host Ann Curry asked Amma about her impression
of present-day USA and its need for the kind of compassion Amma teaches.
Amma answered: "Whether in America or in any other part of the world,
motherhood is not a quality that women alone should have. Men should also
awaken to their innate feminine qualities, which is the need of the age.
All over the world, people have an intense longing to experience pure
love. They are in search of that love, but are not finding it. Rather,
each person is becoming an object in the other person's hand."
MULTIFACETED
MOTHER
Apart from her famous accessibility, what adds to Amma's infinite appeal
to all kinds of people is her multidimensional nature. Different people
experience Amma according to their own levels of evolution.
For some she is the fountain of ultimate spiritual knowledge. For many
she is the loving mother whom you can turn to in moments of crisis and
to resolve everyday problems. For others she is a miraculous healer of
illnesses.
For
a person who follows the path of devotion (bhakti
yoga), Amma is a true devotee par excellence. One who pursues
the path of knowledge (jnana
yoga) perceives a perfect Knower of the Self in her. And for
the one who follows the path of action (karma
yoga), Amma is the ultimate karmayogi. But a person
with a clear comprehension can see that Amma is a multidimensional
integration of all these aspects. To her devotees, she is a Divine
incarnation of the Mother Goddess.
There
are countless stories of wonderful transformations
that happen in the lives of those who meet Amma.
The story of Amma's senior disciple Swami Amritatmananda Puri is an
excellent example. He was born in a wealthy family of Kerala, India
and grew up as a modern youth indulging in worldly pleasures. He remembers:
"I had problems with my business. I came, not seeing Amma as
a spiritual master, but to know my future. After darshan, all
of a sudden, a great transformation occurred in my life. It was as
if I woke up from a dream forgetting everything about my family, home
and worldly life. Then onwards, I surrendered my life to Amma."
While
visiting Gangotri, Hardwar and Rishikesh in India, as a wandering
monk, he experienced miraculous visitations from Amma. It was not
a mere feeling of her presence. "She actually came to me several
times. Amma showed me how a master protects a disciple. It is a miracle
for ordinary human beings like us," he says.
AMMA'S
GRACE
In the souvenir published to mark the inauguration of the Amrita Institute
of Medical Sciences, Kochi, India, in 1998, T.N. Seshan, former Chief
Election Commissioner of India, revealed that Amma was his constant
inspiration during his crusade to clean the stables of Indian politics.
He wrote: "Battling political parties when everybody doubted
that anyone could hold our political parties at bay, I was able to
do it with Amma's grace By the virtue of the love I received
from the Mother of Amritapuri, I found the strength to declare falsehood
as falsehood, and truth as truth."
In his
message on Amma's birthday last month, former Indian CBI director
D.R. Kaarthikeyan wrote: ''When I asked many foreigners why they follow
Amma wherever she goes when they cannot even fluently communicate
with her, their reply was: 'We need not converse with her. It is enough
to be in her divine presence and just keep looking at her eyes always
full of grace, compassion and love'.''
Says
S.K. Nair, director of Modi Alkalies and Chemicals, India, who is
also the secretary of Amma's Math (abbey) in Delhi, India:
"Amma communicates with everyone through the language of the
heart. I have seen her talking with the same concern and involvement
when discussing issues of national importance as she does when listening
to an old woman from a village whose cow has stopped yielding milk."
Amma
sees the atman (soul) in everyone.
"As
with any other organization, there is a hierarchy in the ashram.
However, there is no sense of superiority or inferiority associated
with the different levels of the hierarchy. The overwhelming feeling
is that everyone is part of one big family of the Divine Mother. Everyone
has a special bond with Mother, and each is focused on enjoying every
moment that he/she spends with Mother,'' explains Brahmachari Shubamrita
Chaitanya, honorary editor of the ashram's monthly magazine, Matruvani.
According
to Brahmachari Dhyanamrita Chaitanya, one of Amma's disciples, Amma, who
is grounded in immortal bliss, knows everyone's innermost thoughts. Once,
during darshan, when thousands of devotees were present, he tried to test
Amma. He prayed in his mind: "Mother, please look at me." He
switched his position several times. But to his astonishment, every time,
Amma looked at him and smiled. She later revealed things about him that
nobody could have known. His doubts ended and he became her devotee.
THE WORLD APPLAUDS Satsang(religious congregation) with Amma is an intense affair.
Amma and the brahmacharis and brahmacharinis (celibates)
lead devotional bhajans (Indian devotional music)and the devotees
are guided to meditate.
Amma discusses complex spiritual truths in the simplest language. Her
discourses are often laced with witty remarks and anecdotes that drive
home complex ideas with force. This was evident in her address at the
Millennium World Peace Summit of Religious and Spiritual leaders in the
UN General Assembly during the session on 'The Role of Religion in Conflict
Transformation' on August 29, 2000. Her reference to weapons received
special applause. She said: "Simply transferring the world's nuclear
weapons to a museum will not in itself bring about world peace. The nuclear
weapons of the mind must first be eliminated."
Amma received
a standing ovation when she related a story of three spiritual leaders.
This story is a parody of contemporary efforts towards peace. "The
leaders of three religionsA, B and Conce decided to convene
a meeting for peace. God was so pleased with their efforts that He sent
an angel to them during the meeting. The angel asked the leaders what
they wished. The leader of religion A said: 'Religion B is responsible
for all the problems. So please wipe them off the face of earth!' The
leader of religion B said: 'Religion A is the cause of all our troubles.
You have to reduce them to ashes!' By now the angel was disappointed.
The angel turned expectantly to the leader of religion C. With an expression
of grave humility, C's leader said: 'I wish nothing for myself. It will
be enough if you merely grant the prayers of my two colleagues.'"
A LEGEND
UNFOLDS
Amma's rise from a misunderstood and abused, God-intoxicated village girl
to a guru who offers solace to millions, is the stuff legends are made
of. She is said to have been born with Supreme Consciousness and never
sought guidance from any guru.
In Kollam
district in Kerala, India, there is a sleepy village, Parayakadavu,
that nestles between the Arabian Sea and the backwaters. Amma was born
there in 1953, the fourth child of Sugunananadan and Damayanti, poor
fisher folk. The baby, named Sudhamani, is said to have had a dark blue
complexion. By the age of five, she had started singing devotional songs
in praise of Lord Krishna.
For little
Sudhamani, life was stormy. Her devotional moods, singing, dancing and
ecstatic trances were incomprehensible to both her own family and the
local people. Most people thought the child was eccentric.
Sudhamani
was the servant of her family. Her day began at three in the morning and
an endless stream of household chores like cooking, washing clothes, milking
the cow, fetching water and cleaning continued till midnight. Her mother
was always ill. Despite being an exceptional student, she was forced to
quit school by the age of nine.
In spite
of her backbreaking schedule, Sudhamani found time to help others. She
would give food and clothes away and take money from her father's wallet
to serve the needy because of which, she was severely beaten.
THE DIVINE
BHAVAS
Sudhamani's devotional moods continued to deepen and she began seeing
the divine everywhere. Her family often locked her out of the house without
food. She slept outdoors and meditated on the seashore. The sand was her
bed, the stars her blanket and the moon her only light.
In this
connection, it is worth noting that the sadhana (devotion) that
mahatmas perform is called sadhana leela. They do not need to
undergo any spiritual discipline, But to set an example to the world,
they undergo austerities. Amma gives the example of an instructor at
a school for the speech- and hearing-impaired who communicates with
the students through sign language. Not that he cannot communicate otherwise,
but to communicate with the students, he has to use a mode of communication
that is meaningful to them.
Thus, having
undergone or displayed (we know not which) rigorous sadhana,
Amma then manifested her oneness with the divine from September 1975
onwards through the Krishna and Devi Bhavas. As Amma says: "All
the deities of the Hindu pantheon, who represent the infinite aspects
of the One Supreme Being, exist within us as well. A divine incarnation
can manifest any one of them for the good of the world by mere will."
Amma braved
untold suffering and obstacles in implementing her mission on earth. Skeptics
organized a committee to stop 'blind beliefs' and fought her vehemently.
Earlier, some of her antagonists used to stone her and there were even
attempts to kill her by stabbing and poisoning. Her own brother was her
greatest enemy. The committee's activities led to court cases and several
investigations. She was accused of lunacy and cheating people in the name
of devotion. But all these attempts to silence her eventually failed and
the opposition gradually fizzled out.
EXPANDING
MISSION
On May 6, 1981, the Mata Amritanandamayi Math and Mission Trust was
founded in the house where Amma was born. From then onwards, Amma adopted
the name 'Mata Amritanandamayi' (Mother of Immortal Bliss) given to
her by a brahmachari (celibate initiate) disciple who later blossomed
into a poet with the Mother's grace and came to be known as Swami Turiyamritananda
Puri. By 1985, there were nearly 20 branch ashrams in India and
abroad.
In 1987,
at age 33, responding to the request of devotees from the USA and Europe,
Amma made her first world tour. In 1989, the Mata Amritananadamayi Center,
a residential ashram and retreat canter, was established just
outside San Francisco. Since then, similar centers have sprung up in
Canada, England, France, Italy, Germany, the Netherlands, Sweden, Spain,
Finland, Argentina, Brazil, Mauritius, Reunion Island, Japan and Singapore.
Amma has
been visiting her devotees throughout the world ever since. In 1993,
she was elected as a member of the Parliament of World Religions in
Chicago. In the same year, Hinduism Today, an international journal
on Indian culture, conferred the 'Hindu Renaissance' award on Amma.
In 1995, she was invited to speak at the interfaith celebration in New
York to commemorate the 50th anniversary of the United Nations.
SPIRITUALITY
THAT WORKS
To Mata Amritanandamayi, spirituality is not an excuse to escape from
the material world. She is not an ivory tower guru. She teaches that compassion
is a prerequisite for realizing the Self. Selfless service leads ultimately
to liberation.
In her
address to the Parliament of World Religions, Chicago, on September
3, 1993, Amma said: "Our spiritual quest should begin with selfless
service to the world. People will be disappointed if they sit in meditation,
expecting a third eye to open after closing the other two. This is not
going to happen. We cannot close our eyes to the world in the name of
spirituality and expect to evolve. To behold unity while viewing the
world through open eyes is spiritual realization."
According
to Swami Amritatmananda Puri, Amma's message is 'Universal love, fraternity
and service.' "When you have a guru like Amma, through her grace
you are automatically inspired to serve the world. Amma always says you
have to look at the sad, poor people and their sorrows," he adds.
Swamini Krishnamrita
Prana points out that in Amma's teaching, there is no difference between
spirituality and the world. "You have to live in the world so that
every action of yours will be with a good attitude and intention to help
someone," she says.
Swami Amritaswarupananda
Puri also stresses that Amma's philosophy is not otherworldly. "There
is no difference between spirituality and life
or love and life. Love and life are one."
Often referring
to herself in the third person, Amma describes her mission: "The
purpose of this body and of Mother's whole life is to serve her children."
Amma practices what she teaches. She is the hardest worker at her ashram.
She can be seen carrying bricks to building sites, cooking for her disciples
and feeding them with her own hand and tending cows or cleaning toilets
apart from overseeing ashram affairs and maintaining a world travel and
teaching schedule.
The loving
Amma is also a strict disciplinarian to her disciples. Amma's ordained
students observe strict celibacy and the residents of her ashram meditate
eight hours a day in addition to doing service. Amma has said that her
strict standards for her disciples are aimed at keeping their ego in
check and inculcating an aptitude for selfless service. It is not in
conflict with her love. Amma breaks the ego to bring out the real essence.
EXCERPTS
FROM AN INTERVIEW WITH SWAMI AMRITASWARUPANANDA PURI
Swami Amritaswarupananda Puri,
Amma's first sanyasi (monk) disciple and Vice Chairman of the Mata
Amritanadamayi Math in Kollam, Kerala, India, on Amma:
How
did you come into contact with Amma?
I didn't perform well in my final year exams in college. I was persuaded
by some people from my village to meet Amma. At that time, the ashram
was a small place. I came only because I'd get a chance to sing and find
out whether I'd pass or fail in the exam. I never ever imagined I'd become
a monk.
Anyhow,
I met Amma and sang. At the very first meeting, she just looked into my
eyes and I experienced infinite compassion and love. I was transported
to another world beyond space and time. Then Amma told me that I'd pass
in my exams. But by that time, I was completely disinterested in my exams.
Miraculously, I passed. Later, Amma asked me to get a Master's degree
in philosophy.
After
that first meeting, I realized that my life had completely changed. I
knew that my purpose was something higher. It was a burning inspiration
to know God. Since then, I've been with Amma.
What is the essence of Amma's mission?
It is love and compassion. That is the main goal. That is what Amma is
doing in her day-to-day life and through the activities that the Math
implements all over the world.
How do you think Amma is able to move so many people?
It is the love that people feel when they get close to Amma. Sometimes
it is just a touch, look or a word. Love is actually immensely powerful,
it is pure energy. There is a big difference between the love an ordinary
person feels and what a true master expresses. When Amma touches you,
looks at you or says something to you, it creates an entirely different
world. It reveals so many layers of consciousness because it comes from
a higher realm of being, the real source. It is a personal experience.
That is why people throng to Amma and leave everything to serve her.
When
people come to meet Amma for the first time, even if the meeting is
short, the impact is so powerful that their whole life is transformed.
Most people don't have a clear experience of love in their lives. The
kind of love we normally experience-between husband and wife or between
parents and children and even between lovers-is just an infinitesimal
part of the love we really have. So there is infinite possibility if
you are able to tap into the higher realms of consciousness. Then you
can transmit it to others.
According
to Amma, what is to be done for the future good of humanity?
I think Amma is already doing it concretely. It is not an idea. It is
already practical. It is very tangible as far as Amma and her followers
are concerned.
Are there any special methods of meditation prescribed
by Amma?
I don't think one method will suit everyone because each human being
has a different culture and mental constitution. The physical structure
and inherited tendencies are also different. It is not proper to say
that everyone should realize God or the Self.
According to each one's capacity, you can try to
know yourself better. For this, one needs spiritual practice or sadhana.
Great masters always recommend methods according to each one's mental
constitution.
Even
in the Bhagavad
Gita,
Lord Krishna gives instructions according to the mood changes of Arjuna.
The Gita is applicable to everyone. But it is not just one path. In
the Gita, we find karma yoga, bhakti yoga and jnana
yoga. These are all perfect paths that will take you to God if you
practice sincerely. But one path is not enough for everyone. Like all
genuine masters, Amma instructs according to each one's mental constitution
or temperament.
What is Amma's prescription to solve the problems
of this world?
All great masters down the ages have been trying to suggest solutions.
But ultimately it is a question of practicing them. For everything there
is a cause. Find the cause and treat it. But how many people who talk
about spiritual values and essential principles of life practice them?
Amma is doing a lot of work. She puts many lives
on the right track. The lives of millions of people all over the world
have completely changed after meeting Amma. The change has happened
and is happening. That is the truth.