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His robust message is one the MTV generation would
love. "Enjoy," he says. "If your wife nags you, simply enjoy! If
your boss fires you, enjoy!" Meet Swami Sukhabodhananda, who teaches Vedanta
in an experiential workshop setting
The
man of enlightenment is nothing if not integrated. At any given time,
he contains the past, the present, the East, the West, the good, the bad,
the high, the low. In short, the allwithin himself. And he does
so with the lightness of a flower dancing in the wind.
His followers would say that's a pretty fair likeness of Swami Sukhabodhananda,
the ebullient founder chairman of Prasanna Trust, Bangalore, India,
which runs the popular LIFE (Living in FreedomAn Enquiry)
program. Particularly if they had caught him in the midst of teaching
break dance to a group of youngsters one minute and intoning the mahamritunjaya
mantra in the next. In the LIFE program the Swami whips
up a soufflé of wisdom made by blending together Vedanta
with Gestalt, NLP,
reiki,
Zen Buddhism,
Sufism and even Scientology. He quotes not just Lord Krishna or Shankaracharya
but J.
Krishnamurthi, Osho
and Ouspensky (Gurdjieff's
Boswell). Such a nonsectarian, eclectic approach makes him a hot favorite
even among nontraditional participants of personal growth workshops such
as the corporate world or teenagers. Swamiji has done programs for blue-chip
companies like ACC, Asian Paints, Godrej, German Remedies, Hoechst, HPCL
and ICICI. And his workshops abound with bright young people looking for
answers to life sans the sectarian baggage.
With a secular education in commerce and a spiritual one in Vedanta,
the Swami seems particularly equipped to straddle both streams
and to synthesize them. And indeed, to do so is his dearest mission.
When he started his ministry at age 24, after learning Vedanta
in Rishikesh under Swami
Chinmayananda and later with Swami Dayananda Saraswati, he found young
people uninterested in his discourses. "They wanted dialogue,"
explains Swamiji, as we sit together in his dressing room at the
end of a long day of conducting the LIFE program in Mumbai, India.
Accordingly, he stitched together a workshop deliberately broadened to include
other wisdom traditions and with enough processes and games to break inhibitions
and make the participants feel good about themselves. "When they feel good
about themselves they get bigger than the problem," he explains. A similar
practical approach couches all his talks and lectures. As he himself says, what
he teaches is not philosophy but applied philosophy.
His talks are beautifully
structured, logically arranged and presented with enough catchphrases and points
to ensure recall value. "When bad things happen to good people, they become
better, not bitter," he says amidst applause. Or again: "The perceiver
in you pollutes the perception and perceives the perceived as an extension of
the perceiver." When freed of its she-sells-seashells connotation, it is
a profound recognition of the human tendency to impose personal points of view
on the truth. He talks about the six Rs of people management: rapport, recognize,
recall, rethink, retrain, relook; and the three Es of coping with fear: experience,
enjoy and explore.
Many of his terms are borrowed from Western experiential
workshops such as The Forum and NLP. "To deal with difficult people, see
where you are coming from. Is it from commitment or complaint?" he asks,
much as a Forum leader would. At the same time, he relates all these concepts
flawlessly to Vedantic ones. "Operate from sankalpa, commitment,"
he says.
Whatever the subject, the perspective is essentially Vedic.
For instance, in managing people, he advises listeners to operate from the fullness
of emptiness, a paradoxical way of referring to the annihilation of the ego. The
key to having a successful married life, he says is to move progressively from
the stages of maithuna (sex), whose center is lust, to prema (love),
whose center is caring, to maitri (friendliness), whose center is non-domination,
to bhakti, whose center is sacredness, to karuna, whose center is
compassion.
The ultimate aim of any partnership, he says, is to move from dvaita
(duality) to advaita (non-duality). Lofty ideas made accessible
by the many techniques, processes and meditations he strews his workshops
with. "Swamiji gives at least 500 points at each workshop.
One has difficulty deciding what to choose and what to leave," says
Gopinath Raghavan, 33, a member of his Mumbai center.
Above all, his message is one the MTV generation
would love. "Enjoy," he says with relish. "If your wife nags you,
simply enjoy! If your boss fires you, enjoy!" This active appreciation of
all that life brings is once again a Vedic concept called ananda lahiri
(waves of bliss).
For Swamiji, the underlying malaise of the human condition
stems from our "greed to be somebody and the fear of being nobody. People
are so busy trying to achieve that they have no knowledge of their own identity".
He continues: "The glamour of being successful is portrayed so powerfully
in the media that it is mistaken for happiness."
What seems to give Swamiji the edge over other workshop trainers
or programs is the sound conceptual and experiential wisdom provided by
Vedanta. There is a profundity and clarity in his words that can
only come from living them. Says Raghavan: "Swamiji walks
his walk and talks his talk." "Everything is perishable. That
is the beauty of existence," affirms Swamiji with the certainty of
one who has penetrated to the ground realities of life.
Little
wonder then that the LIFE program impacts participants
at a deep level. No workshop, however profound, can transform
a participant (alas for instant enlightenment!) but it can offer
insights and perspectives that can turn around attitudes.
Says Sriram Athri, who has been involved with Swamiji since the
inception of LIFE in Mumbai and is presently the head of
the Mumbai chapter: "I discovered that one needs more than
intellect to live life. The intellect is basically an extension
of myself. There are other centers in me that draw in wisdom."
He adds: "Earlier I used to condemn my weaknesses and feel
small about them. Today, I see my weaknesses as greater strength
and use them as instruments of change. Today, I am undisturbed
by the uncertainties of life. Whatever the circumstance, I am
anchored to the moment. This enables me to work powerfully."
Says Seema Prabhu, editor of the Trust's newsletter, Prasanna Dharanna: "I
did the program because it brought about an amazing change in my introverted husband.
I told Swamiji that he had done over one weekend what I had not been able to do
in 13 years of marriage-bring a permanent smile to my husband's face."
Ask the man himself about his program and he says: "I try
and bring in a model of Indian culture. For instance, the model
of navrasas (nine emotions). I see these as energy fields
that need to be balanced and applied to a person's life. How is
adhbuta (wonderment) useful to you as an executive? I say
that if your boss is firing you, instead of being a victim, experience
the wonderment of the situation. Or take gratitude. If your mind
is sacred with gratitude, it opens up higher centers. Or veera,
courage, which is the heart of good parenting because it is about
helping the child live with increasing doses of risk. Courage
is also essential in spiritual life. Without it you get caught
up in tradition rather than truth. I come from a conventional
background, but I teach break dance in my children's program and
t'ai
chi in my post-LIFE program called Existential Lab."
This is not the Swami's only break from tradition. Despite
his close association with the Chinmaya Mission, he walked out
to carve his own path. "I see him as a revolutionary,"
says Raghavan excitedly. "He could have easily stayed on
in the Chinmaya Mission, but he left to stay true to his spirit
of inquiry. He has often told me that the highest value for him
is freedom." Sure enough, ask the Swami why he does
what he does and he says: "To teach people to be happy and
to free themselves."
LIFE program, he says, can be used as a basis for self-realization,
while rooted in contemporary life. Certainly, it provides answers
at the existential plane to even unconscious seekers. Says Raghavan,
who did the program soon after his father's death: "I felt
I had come home. The workshop made me understand that there was
a larger purpose to life than merely the material."
For those wanting to go beyond LIFE, Swami Sukhabodhananda
has created a four-day Existential Lab, which is considered to be far
more powerful than LIFE. Beyond that is training for those who
wish to run an ancillary program "Not LIFE, which is tailor-made
for me alone," says Swamiji regretfully, "but others
such as workshops on the value of mantras om namah shivaya or
the gayatri mantra."
It is this restriction of faculty to one man alone that comes in the
way of its growth. At a time when the movements created by fellow Bangalore
gurusRishi
Prabhakar and Sri
Sri Ravishankarare expanding at furious pace, his organization
is relatively small. But is this necessarily a drawback? As one who
views largeness with suspicion, I don't think so.
He also runs what he calls with typical innovation, a Yogic Linguistic
Program, which presents NLP from the yogic
point of view. Incidentally, Swami Sukhabodhananda was a guest
participant at Richard Bandler's NLP workshop in Bangalore, India. He
even teaches yogic reiki, which he says is the recognition that higher
qualities such as gratitude and service open up your centers and you
experience a mysterious energy flow.
Beyond the programs, the Swami runs various charitable organizationshome
for homeless girls called Prasanna Jyoti. Says Raghavan: "He
is like a father to the children. And they get the best of education.
One is studying to be a doctor." Then there is Nirguna Mandir,
an educational institute teaching the Upanishads and the Gita while
relating them to contemporary life. It also supports research on spiritual
topics.
The range of his activities is a testimony to his dynamism and creativity;
and to his abilities as manager. Wonders Athri: "I am a businessman
myself and have to motivate people but, at least, I pay them. Swamiji
has to motivate those who work for him on an honorary basis and that
is far more difficult. Yet he does it so well. His payment is pure motivation
and positivity."
Those are not the only qualities worth endorsing. As Raghavan says:
"He is a purna purusha, a complete person." What struck
me on meeting him was his freshness and focus. He had just completed
a day of teaching LIFE to 200 participants and had even broken
his ankle. As he eased himself into his chair and pulled off the elastic
bandage immobilizing the ankle, I could sense no resistance to the moment,
no exhaustion or fretfulness. Just enthusiasm, energy and peace.
Says Athri: "There is a great amount of restfulness in him. No
matter what his physical condition or the circumstances, he is never
disturbed." Says the Swami when asked about his state of
mind: "I experience a deep inner stillness. Consciousness is space
and thoughts are clouds. Emotions come and go. One expands to contain
them all. There is also a dimension when I am not the mind but something
else."
How does one get to that stage? His formula
for liberation is satsang (communion), seva (unconditional service),
swadhyaya (self-study) and finally, samarpan (surrender).
And what is the bottom line for this dynamic spirit? "I do not want
to be confined to any system. I just want to go on spreading openness, goodness,
love and joy."