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Are
we using both sides of our brain?? No? Then here is how we can accomplish
it to function more effectively, realize our hidden potentials and become
balanced and complete personalities
Every human being has two personalities. That this statement seems
to have been designed to shock doesn't deter from its truth. It's a sort
of benign schizophrenia that keeps us balance gingerly on the tightrope
between what society labels as sane and what it ridicules as mental malfunction.
Lasting happiness is a state of mutual peace
and balance among our physical, mental, emotional,
psychological and spiritual aspects. This is because in order to strike
this balance we need to identify our real and ultimate goals correctly
(which should not appear to be misplaced later on) and then adopting the
correct and balanced routes to attain these goals. Underneath the buzz
of day-to-day hustle and bustle that gives us no time to pause and reflect
upon our actions and our lives, an uneasy realization of some kind of
an imbalance lurks very near to our skin but still continues to elude
all our endeavors to identify the same. The imbalance indeed lurks very
close to our skinonly a few millimeters beneath our scalp.
TWO BRAINS, ONE BODY The last time anyone talked about two brains in
one body was regarding those behemoths that dominated the earth 65 million years
ago: dinosaurs. Tyrannosaurus Rex, the cost dedicated carnivore of all time, weighted
between four and six tonnestoo much bulk for one pea-sized brain: so, in
a fit of anger Mother Nature gave it two pea-sized brains, one in the head to
handle senses like vision, hearing and the procreative instinct, the other near
the tail to deal with locomotion and control of the extremities.
Nature
was subtler with human beings: she gave them one brain and bisected it into halves
that not only look different but have exclusive functions as well: the grayish
left half is logical, analytical, verbal, lineal and sequential; the right white
half is emotional, spatial, visual and holistic. The right hemisphere is white
because the nerve cells there are protected by a white insulation called myelination,
covering the nerve cells, which are too involved in processing an unending marchpast
of visual, emotional and sensory message to keep a lookout for their enemies.
It is here that fuzzy logic creates lifesaving abstractions like hunches
and gut feelings. The left brain doesn't need much myelination because its function,
unlike the right brain, does not need to process a wide variety of messages to
provide a complete and overall picture of the situation. It processes the messages
only to provide special and analytical results. The hemispherical preference of
our personalitiesleft or right-dominantdepends on our genes and psychological
conditioning.
This preference has a direct bearing on our style of thinking, which in
turn influences our skills, our inclinations and ability to gather particular
kinds of knowledge, our attitude towards life, the quality of our performance
and our relationships with people, work,
money, material possessions, Nature,
and all that we are surrounded by and interact with. One hemisphere grows
in skill only at the cost of other. The consequences are unnerving: impoverishment
of the right brain could lead to our denial of our intuitive faculty.
Also, the historical cost of this hemispherical sequestration is mindboggling:
the Industrial Revolution blindly favored the left brain and accelerated
the pace of scientific and technological
progressbut it retarded the progress in research in the right brain,
the paranormal,
ESP and other hidden powers of man.
Besides left or right-dominant people,
there are mixed dominants: they can use both the sides with almost equal command.
Mixed dominants, however, may vary in lateralization. Highly lateralized individuals
(more males than females) move more completely to the taskappropriate hemisphere
than their less lateralized counterparts, who may end up performing a task in
both the sides. Mixed dominants lacking this ability of lateralization may experience
in inner competitive tension between the two sides, which may manifest itself
in indecisiveness or stammering or both.
THE BRAIN BRIDGE
Strangely enough, it is this dichotomy that shapes our personality. The
story of these cranial twins began in the 1960s following the world's
first "commisurrotomy", an operation that demolished the bridge of nerve
fiber, the Corpus callosum. A breakthrough surgery was performed on a
World War II veteran whose brain injury had been causing him agonizing
seizures. The operation blocked the seizures originating in one side from
crossing over to the other. Scientists then found that, normally, both
halves worked together, helped by the Corpus callosum. The most well-recognized
brain surgerylobotomy, given notoriety by the film One Flew Over
the Cuckoo's Nestcame into being this century, but its true
nature was revealed only with "hemispheric to my", the entire excision
of a diseased or damaged half.
Left to themselves,
the two halves are civilized neighbors, constantly gossiping across the fence.
A poet, who is supposed to be highly lateralized, first gets a bolt of inspiration
from his right brain. Second, he organizes these thoughts and puts them down on
paper or hard disk by scooting to the left half. Third, to add finesse to the
final product, back to the right half. Fourth, for badgering publishers, back
to the left half. Fifth, to weep copiously at the unkindness of critics, back
tot he right half. Sixth, to plan and exact vengeancethe left half. And
so on.
DEVELOPING YOUR LEFT BRAIN: PRESENT YOURSELF LIKE A LEFT
PERSON Pay attention to the way you dress. Make yourself more formal.
Note whether your posture reflects confidence. Show that you are alert, confident.
Decide to be what you know you are not. The response from people will fill your
subconscious with positive messages regarding your being a left person. In essence,
fake it till you make it.
Fill in the details It is natural
for right-dominant to start with as global view with glaring holes in it. Fill
details into the picture, but methodically. Notice the details of the details.
Jot down the whole rigmarole.
Measure the treasure Keep records
of everythingyour belongings, car mileage, investments. Plan your day like
clockwork. Develop awareness of time, space (in terms of height, area, volume),
weight, money.
Work out at the mental gym Try to go deeper
into all that interests you. Draw up an impressive family tree. Gather more knowledge.
Become systematic, scientific and organized. Try to learn something new every
day. Don't let things be taken for granted. Don't let others and your habits think
and decide for you. Make notes of all that you read and index it properly for
future reference. Revel in the intricacy of the Times crossword... Give yourself
puzzles and koans to solve. Think of your brain as a gymnasium, and your mind
as its developer, powerful and indefatigable. Remember that like any other faculties,
mental ones, too, tone up gradually. So, don't be discourage by initial results.
Work like clockwork Periodically dump, sell or donate all
the junk you don't use. put every activity that you do on trial. Evaluate. Eliminate,
Replace. Set goalsyearly, monthly, weekly, and start your day with a 'to
do' list. Remember that a second gone is gone forever. Monitor your progress,
regularly review your actions.
Make
temptation slog for you
Keep your nervous right brain in abeyance when you face a bank of humorless
people. Recognize and welcome temptation. Not al greed is bad. Risk is
good. Beat stage fright by going on-stage. Plan your speech meticulously,
even your ad libbing. Making points elaborately upon each of them, forming
effective sentence and summarizing will exercise your left brain effectively.
Melt the ice with internal and private conversations: practice in front
of a mirror.
Know that bad is bad
Know that, like smoking, what is bad is badno matter where it's
done, or how or when or why. Also, things like morning dew and grass are
always good to walk
on. Know that ruts were designed to be got out of, not wallowed in. Set
yourself daily challenges. Make rules only for yourselfgive the
rest of the world a break. Switch off your TV at a pre-appointed time
every day for the rest of your life. Will power is left brain territory.
DEVELOPING YOUR RIGHT
BRAIN RIGHT CAN'T BE LEFT BEHIND
Artists and musicians
often lose touch with their skills when they become busy with left-brain
activities such as income tax, planning for outstation schedules and administrative
matters. We, too, often reach a mental dead-end. All this implies that
we need to suspend the left for a little while in order to recondition
ourselves of the left-brain contents.
Write with your other hand I wrote my desires first
with my right hand and then with the left, and found to my surprise that they
were quite different. Many others have tried this. Now, it is your turn to find
out your deep, hidden right-brain desires.
Associate freely with dreams
First thing
every morning, record all that comes to your mindpreferably after recording
the dream itself. This will give you some right-brain insight into your unconscious.
Fantasize about your future Think about 20 years from now. Sometimes,
this projection can hold up to light important clues about why and how to change
your life this moment onwards.
MEDITATE
Meditation or anything that facilitates under- or over-stimulation of the left
actually activates the right brain.
Try self-hypnosis
Hypnotists repeat a message in a monotonous voice to tire out the left brain till
they succeed in activating the right. You can hypnotize yourself by rolling your
eyes upwards till the whites show. Watch your breath deeply and slowly entering,
filling your lungs and receding. Start examining your body toes upwards to the
crown and then back to the toes again. Stop briefly at junctions such as ankles,
calves, knees, thighs, etc., loosening knots of tension. Our right brain is at
its best when our body is relaxed.
Mind your muscles Long
distance runners and aerobics freaks often experience intuitive insights and emotional
revelations, sometimes from the body's release of feel-good endorphins. Extreme
physical comfort and discomfort, long, boring lectures, sleep deprivation, hunger
and passivity can stimulate your right brain.
Develop intuition
Flashes of intuitive insight can arrive unexpected: white bathing, tying shoelaces,
shaving, driving. Since they often seem to be quite unsubstantiated and irrational,
the left brain calms them down with a flurry of strong objections. So next time
onwards pay attention to these: don't hesitate to rely and use these and discuss
these more often with believers.
Using the halves together creating your creativity
Experts have identified five stages of creativity. The first two and the last
need left brain skills whereas the third and the fourth need the right brain.
Preparing: gathering information, identifying major issues, defining the problem
and clarifying goals. Focusing: Discipline yourself to tune out distraction in
order to focus on immediate activity. Sleeping over it: Synthesize, collate, let
the subconscious mind do the work. It knows best. Sudden insight: Let a spontaneous
new insightan expert mix of visuals, sounds and intuitionblossom at
the culmination of the incubation process. Weighing up: Analyze and see the feasibility
of a concept in its entirely. Plan a sequence of steps to be followed.
OVERCOMING
STRESS Categories the activities, no matter how small, that you do from
morning till bedtime under three heads : left, right and mixed. Record the time
you spend on each activity. This will give you an estimate about which side is
being used more than the other. Explore the possibilities of exchanging some chores
of the side used more with the ones pertaining to the other side. Working with
one hemisphere at the cost of the other may bring you boredom and negative stress.
You need to balance the two, perhaps by deleting, exchanging, delegating professional
activities, or starting a new leisure time hobby.
Even if your job is unstructured, stick to a schedule, which you review
frequently. Divide your day into sections of -3 hours each and assign
bodyclock-based
activities. Once every two hours or so, relax in your chair. Pace about
or try this exercise: tighten your body at all its joints; hold the tension
for a minute, then exhale and let go of the tension. Manage your time.
Digress from the schedule only during an emergency. Learn to say: "No."
Time away from unnecessary activity is time earned. Learn leadership and
the fine art of delegating. Don't marry your job. Only a bad manager will
attempt to do everything with equal perfection. Not prioritizing will
burn you out: chaos is a managerial imperfection, a sign of indecisiveness,
inefficiency and thoughtlessness.
SOLVING PROBLEMS
Try to define the problem in as many ways as you can. Compare the present
status with the desired status. Analyze the differences. Break the problem into
sub-problems. Consider each separately and decide to discuss it, delegate, or
seek a second expert opinion. Switch over to your left brain. Close your eyes
and try to perceive what is happening in your mind. You could catch visuals or
sounds pertaining to your problem. Keep jotting down whatever you see or hear
with your 'inner mind' keeping your eyes closed.
Don't worry about your handwriting
or order-lines on paper. Open your eyes after 10 minutes and look at the
paper. It could spark off another mental journey. Repeat the process.
Dream
solutions: Dreams provide solutionsif you know how to read them.
There is a wealth of visuals, emotions, and imagery with no pretense to logic
and reality. Scientists confirm that the right brain dominates during the dream
state. Here's how you can tap it: Develop an awareness of your dreams. State your
problem broadly. You can be specific only after time and experience. Visualize
doing the very opposite. For example, if your have a bee in your bonnet about
public transport, contemplate a system that obviates the need for it. You could
end up a millionaire devising a (patented) system of moving roads. You could also
design a public stairway to heaven.
Watch the space around the problem
instead of the problem itself: Say, you want to sketch an object in front
of youone way is drawing everything in the space around it. Most management
problems can be solved this way.
Take nothing for granted:
Assume that all assumptions are wrong, even if they look right. Shift to left
for the final solution. Start jotting down your comments, judging, asking relevant
questions, exterminating irrelevant thoughts. Master your speaking skills. Use
the left to define your objectives. Move right to visualize success. Move left
to allay fears. Start with writing a few points on the board.
Speaking
out louda left brain activitycalms your right brain's fears. Move
again to right to give a clear overall picture of your presentation. Bring order
by paraphrasing, summarizing and asking questions. Simplify and use analogies
and metaphors. Don't use logic to convince somebody who is responding from his
right brain (angrily, etc). Either shift him to the left by asking relevant questions
or shift to the right yourself. Say, for example: "I share your feelings." Once
the boss feels that his right brain views are responded to with similar views,
empathy will make him receptive. Don't keep providing information pertaining to
one side of the brain and letting the other sit idle. If you are carrying heavy
luggage you need to change hands every two to three minutes to feel comfortable.
So, arrange your presentation in such a way that the listener may not need to
carry on listening only to what is of interest to one side.
Logic,
analysis, statistics should be interspersed with feelings, emotions, metaphors,
analogies, jokes and interesting anecdotes and inputs pertaining to smell, taste,
sounds, the texture and the visual. Give attention and importance to gestures,
tone, pace, variation in volume and other elements of nonverbal communication
of the other person(s) in order to understand the hidden inner responses so that
you can adapt tot he same both as a listener and a speaker and also to grasp the
communication in totalitynot merely its verbal part.
Give attention
and importance to gestures, tone, pace, variation in volume and other elements
of nonverbal communication of the other person(s) in order to understand the hidden
inner responses so that you can adapt to the same both as a listener and a speaker
and also to grasp the communication in totalitynot merely its verbal part.
Pieces of information with inputs pertaining to both left and the right brain
are assimilated better by the listener (or even the reader). In other to memories
something pay attention to both kinds of inputs so that you have at your disposal
a strong bunch of associations which may help you (and the listeners too) to register,
retain and recall a piece of information better.
IMPROVE YOUR LISTENING
SKILLS In order to beat the boredom while listening: With the left Take
notes. Ask yourself, "Is he following basic outline?" "How has he organized the
lecture?" "What points are being emphasized by him and why?" "What could be the
source of the data being used here?" Shift the receiver of the telephone to the
right ear for analytical thinking. With the Right Picture the listeners, their
gestures, expressions, movements, smile, tone etc. Relate with what you already
know. Look for connections. Shift phone to your left ear (controlled by the right
brain) for emphatic listening.
IMPROVE YOUR POWER OF CONCENTRATION There are times when while attending to a job, we get to hear several voices
as a response to a stimulusan inner (a thought or a remembered episode)
or an external stimuli. In case you want to concentrate on a left-brained job,
it is better to tune down any negative and subjective right-brained thought after
listening to it momentarily, unless it is intuitive in nature, giving you a new
insight into some matter. In which case, jot down this intuitive insight and get
on with whatever you are doing: listening, reading and so on. For example, you
are planning for your presentation and you suddenly encounter this thought: "Last
time I could not make an impression. That guy is so good at this that I stand
no chance…What if he falls ill and is not able to…"
Tune
down this thought and get back to your preparations. (Imagine that as with a radio
or TV set you can tune down the volume of your inner voices and finally tune them
out.) However, after a while you encounter another thoughts: "Why don't you select
the most powerful points and talk bout them with conviction? Would this not be
better than talking about everything but not being able to put conviction and
depth behind them for want of time?" Should you pay heed to this thought? Consider
it for a moment. It has come very spontaneously to you. You were not thinking
about this aspect, yet it has brought a very intelligence insight into the whole
matter. Hence, don't brush it aside with a left-brained objection: "It's too late
to make such a drastic change. Let me get on with this."
Stay on with
the intuitive insight and give it serious consideration and you may feel it wise
on your part to change your decision; preparing for fewer points may not take
much time because it is always easier to carry things in bunches than in scattered
form, even though the bulk of information may be the same in both cases.
Reading is a left activity that often gets interrupted by reactive thoughts
which can both help or hinder one's understanding of what is being read, depending
upon whether these are related to what is being read or not. If related, the thoughts
may enhance one's understanding. Often, when the subject does not interest the
reader or if he has been studying for a long time, the thoughts can bump his attention
totally off the track. Voluntarily interrupt yourself at the end of each paragraph
and reflect upon it in your mind.
Visualize
the concept just discussed, if you can. This will give a much needed breathing
time to your left brain since visualizing is a right-brain activity. This will
also strengthen the neural pathways in the brain and thereby reinforce your memory
of the concept. Keeping the tips of the right index finger (controlled by the
left brain) and the thumb in contact with each other while reading as a cue in
order to remain yourself to bring your attention back to the reading material.
Define what you expect from both brains and the reward you will give
to your right braina to fee, a cup of coffee, drawing a sketch or just humming
a tune if it does not disturb while the left is engaged. Similarly if you want
to concentrate on a right-brained job, tune out all negative statements and questions
from the left brain which can do nothing but discourage youfor example,
the thought, "At 11 a.m., I am surely not at my best as far as my gripping potential
and body flexibility is concerned." However, if you hear a spontaneous intuitive
insight in the garb of a left-brained message be careful to pay heed to itsometimes
intuitive thoughts can be so full of sense that they appear to be coming from
the left than from the right.
To know more read, : Whole Brain Thinking by Jaquelyn Wonder and
Priscilla Donovan, The Right Brain Experience by Marilee Zdenek.
WHAT
BRAIN TYPE ARE YOU?
If
you are more left, you…
Analyze everything and love the structure of research and need supporting
evidence before accepting new ideas.
Like
stability and order.
Are willing to adhere to rules and
adapt to structures.
Don't feel easy with spontaneous decisions.
Would like to plan your time.
Dislike taking risks.
If
you do, you try to analyze the situation so much that it no longer necessitates
a decision.
Focus
on words and not on the tone, or on gestures while receiving a verbal
message.
Keep your left thumb up while clasping
your hands.
You prefer algebra to geometry, are
more likely to play with a sense of competition.
Have definite goals to achieve.
If you are more right, you….
Are imaginative.
Go by hunches and gut feelings.
May not need empirical evidence in
order to accept new ideas.
Love change and like anything that
is unusual.
Don't like to plan and are impulsive.
Often take decisions without thinking
much, simply because you `feel like' doing that.
You enjoy taking risks.
Focus on body language, emotional
tone and other subtleties.
Concentrate on the overall message.
Keep your right thumb up while clasping
your hands.
Are left-eyed.
Prefer geometry to algebra.
Dread competition.
Thrive on freedom.
Play games just for the sake of recreation,
without any objectives. (This is common to both brain types).
Keep your finger a foot away from your eyes and align it with a distant
vertical edge of a door, window or almirah. Now close your left
eye. Does the finger seem to move away form the edge? Try with the other
eye. The eye that is predominant will make a difference when closed and
make the finger appear to move away from the vertical edgeright
one in the case of left-brained people, and vice-versa.