In the time of Kaliyug, when the need of the hour is to spiritualise society, the role of the householder seeker is a crucial one. Juggling career, family, multiple relationships and traffic jams, the householder must bloom like the proverbial lotus in the muck of everyday life More>>
Mumbai's (India) interactive restaurant, Chetana, had organized one of
its frequent lectures. Sadly, the takers were few. But that didn't stop the speaker
from launching into a cogent and articulate exposition of Vedanta. With a spare
frame and a calm, controlled visage, the fatherly N.K. Somani appears the quintessential
Vedantin, unruffled in situations fair and foul, doing what he must in a spirit
of nishkama karma.
At
the photo-session later on, we had occasion to see Vedantic values in action.
Somani allowed us to push and position the furniture in his elegant cabin and
raised no objection when we asked him to accompany us to the nearest park. "Anything
that can be done will be done," he assured us calmly but he was clear that
the shoot must be accomplished within the allotted hour.
In
between intervals to reposition lights, Somani applied himself methodically to
his work, taking care to use every moment. This combination of flexibility and
discipline, of co-operation and boundary setting, is an indication of mastery
in living. "Vedanta is the science and art of living," he had told the
audience that evening.
His
attitude towards business, like everything else in life, is centered on the existence
of God. "Each of us has a responsibility to God which is paramount. I have
been born into the Mafatlal family for some reason and I must discharge my duty
towards it. I will do my best for Mafatlal, but I will do it in a way that fulfills
my responsibility to God as well.
"We
may be from different backgrounds, rich-poor, ugly-beautiful, but no one is superior
to the other. We are all equal Whether I travel by a Mercedes or the second-class
compartment of a local train makes no difference to that central fact."
This understanding
of the essential equality of all beings has made him more tolerant. "Earlier
I used to compartmentalize people as friends and enemies. Now I don't lose sleep
over a difference of opinions or approaches.
"My
needs have become highly simple. As an industrialist I have an obligation to increase
my company's value, but the key question is, for whom am I generating the wealth?
If it were for me alone, it would go into a Rs 50-lakh Mercedes, a 5-crore yacht
and so on. But would I be happier? If the real pleasure of life is at the level
of the spirit-soul, then our joy is rooted in selflessness, in making others happy,
in performing devotional service. My business is centered around God."
Continues
Mafatlal: "I see my employees as human beings However, in a competitive
business we must regulate certain norms such as excellence of performance. People
have to perform, but even if I have to give them bad news I do it honestly and
openly, and try to be as fair and gentle as possible. Right now, industry is going
through a very bad phase. In the last two years, 200 to 300 mills have closed
down. So we have had to make some hard choices...
"But I do try and promote a harmonious work culture I discourage
politicking. Team spirit is critical. And I ensure basic services such as cleanliness
within the workplace as well as good and nutritious food in the canteen. I often
have the same food just to keep a check on quality. I also try and be aware of
victimization. In pleasing the boss, many are unfair on their subordinates. There
have been times when we have let a senior man go."
Mafatlal is disturbed
by liberalization. "It has made the situation very difficult. And I believe
that we are not taking into account the fact that there are 700 million people
living in the villages of India. What about their welfare? Our policies are urban
oriented and controlled by the West."
Despite
the turbulence, he considers himself a happy man. "I have lots of weaknesses
but I find that I'm more honest and straightforward with people. Life is much
less stressed. I've never had a problem with sleep. People ask why I don't react
when things go wrong, but I don't have to demonstrate my feelings."
His family
is a source of joy and support to him. "My wife is my greatest influence,"
he says. "In her conduct she is much more spiritual than I am. She speaks
her mind out often and chides me when I expect her to be super-efficient. 'I'm
not your secretary, I'm your wife,' she says. I appreciate such openness because
it creates an authentic relationship, which is wonderful. I cannot imagine going
home and experiencing tension. And my three children-they are wonderful human
beings."