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what constitutes the success mantra and how we can achieve it, as individuals
and as organizations, without paying a price in terms of stress and disharmony
YOU ARE RICH
By Parveen
Chopra
An
American millionaire who was asked how much was enough, replied: "Just
a little bit more." This implies lack, which has become an inseparable
part of our lives. But rather than how much you have, it is your attitude
to what you have that determines your level of abundance. And the lack
in one area of life disallows success and fulfillment in all the other
areas.
These
insights are getting a hearing with the focus on abundance. But what is abundance?
And what are the ways to let it flow into our lives? Abundance is certainly not
something we can acquire, it is something we tune into. It is a state of being.
Of feeling that "I have enough"time, energy, well-being, loving
relationships, wisdom, everything. Enough money too.
Delhi-based
reiki master Sukhdeepak Malvai says we should mind our self-talk. Seeing a fancy
car or a bungalow, do you say with a sigh: "No, I cannot afford it",
or, "Only people with black money earned by dubious means can enjoy these
luxuries"? Replace such thoughts with statements such as "Yes, I might
have a house better than that."
Closing
money matters, literally, also helps: therefore, settle old debts, update your
bank books and so on.
Declare for yourself what you want. Be specific
in setting your goals. Focusing on what is already there in your life and
not on what you don't have may sound like good old positive thinking, but it is
an important principle. It relates to the Biblical promise: "To him that
hath, shall more be given."
Also,
believe in the abundance of the universe. Think of the things we need to survive:
air, sunlight, food. Is there any shortage? Once Maharishi Mahesh Yogi was talking
enthusiastically about a project costing a few million dollars. In those early
years, the TM movement wasn't flush with cash. Naturally, his associates asked:
"Where is the money going to come from?" "From wherever it is now,"
was his simple, confident answer.
Truly,
all things material circulate and recirculatenobody can own them.
Modern thinkers and scientists are now convinced that the world is not made
up of things, but of consciousness or an energy field that is experiencing itself.
The shift has been from man seeing the world as an ocean of matter to be exploited
for improving the quality of his material existence to seeing it as an ocean of
intelligent energy of which he too is only a part.
Some timeless principles
highlighted by New Age leaders underlie this paradigm shift and can be applied
for building successful business organizations.
Understand your place
in the sun The universe is one big jigsaw puzzle and each business organization
and individual has a unique slot in it. Each person should be fitted into the
right slot in relation to the organizational plan while fulfilling his own role
in harmony with the Big Plan.
Every organization should realize that
intent and natural talent are assets more important than specialization or technical
qualification on its own. A person with a burning desire to learn more about a
subject can do wonders irrespective of his background.
Practice
the economics of abundance In a perfect scenario everything is available
in abundance to meet one's needs. In any real-life situation, however, this is
not true as people's acquisitive tendencies are driven by reasons other than genuine
needs.
The
first verse of Isha Upanishad says: All that we see around us belongs to
God and has been given to us only for our use. Hence we should not hoard things
unnecessarily.
Many problems crop up in an organization because people
operate from a scarcity consciousness. Organizations with a culture where people
circulate rather than keep things they do not need, provide an environment of
abundance; people always have what they need at the right time and place.
Be rooted
in the reality of 'oneness' Every organization should function cohesively.
It is important that organizations and individuals ensure right from the recruitment
stage that they share common values, concerns, visions, challenges, goals and
dreams.
The
more the employees work from the perspective of "It is not I but the Unmanifest
working through me", the more they achieve.
Use
the power of positive thinking People and organizations think and feel
low not because of the dismal circumstances they are in; but because they think
and feel low. The most powerful but least understood tool we possess is positive
thinking. Don't work against anything. For example, don't fight against violence.
Work for peace instead.
Let the Unmanifest work for you Just
as the whole banyan tree unfolds from the tiny seed, the world comes into being
from the Unmanifest. Individuals and organizations must realize that money, material
benefits and all that makes Man happy flows only from the Unmanifest; hence they
should not sacrifice their link with the latter for the sake of the former.
Abundance,
the very nature of the Unmanifest, shall enter and continue to pervade the lives
of people and organizations provided they work in the interests of the common
good and in harmony with the Unmanifest.
Recognize
and trust change
Individuals and organizations should not doubt or resist the inevitable
changes encountered while they are working for the Big Plan. Many organizations
at some juncture feel they cannot afford to go on paying their workers
because of adverse market conditions. Driven by scarcity consciousness
they start driving people out of jobs.
An organization with abundance consciousness, on the other hand, values
people more than its assets and may take such adverse circumstances as
the Unmanifest's signal to change lanes and perhaps start a parallel or
new venture utilizing the experience of surplus employees.
Success requires that organizations remain open to the opportunities and
be sensitive to the world around them. A Shell Group study of 27 companies
revealed that each one had changed their 'business lanes' at least once
after inception. Attune
yourself to the Unmanifest
Perfect quality comes from a perfect source: our inner self. Unless the
employee is in harmony with his inner self, he will continue to fail in
channeling the perfect quality of the Unmanifest into his performance.
We can work at various levels to call upon the power of the Unmanifest
so that it seeps into the organization:
Meditating helps in transcending both inner as well as external noise
that keeps the Unmanifest from us. Make
the best use of the present moment
Life is not a destination to be arrived at. What counts is the present
moment. For employees to make best use of the present moment, organizations
should:
Train people in time management. Prioritizing jobs helps.
Ensure a workplace with a minimum of distractions.
Encourage people to talk to each other in low-pitched voices-that
too only when necessary.
Develop quality people
Personal transformation programs help in the development of highly effective,
quality people. Reiki,
vipassana,
yoga, sudarshan
kriya, TM, hypnotherapy
and NLP
are some of the systems gaining popularity in corporate circles.
Interpersonal
communication skills are the backbone of success for any organization.
Employees should develop listening skills, understand the basics of body
language and learn memory-enhancing
techniques.
Grow
motivation muscle For employees to display loyalty, organizations must
show a similar concern for them. Most organizations grossly underestimate the
human need for appreciation. This erodes employee motivation and creativity. A
good way of motivating people to work for the organization and not merely for
themselves is to equitably distribute a good percentage of profits (say 10 per
cent) as a bonus for employees. In organizations where benefits are meant only
for the top few, all others become outsiders.
Finally,
don't wait for others to change first. Be an active participant in this inevitable
change.
"Success,"
says Promod Batra, former general manager of Escorts and seminar leader, "is
basically about how you can turn adverse situations in your favor." Consider
this. Thomas Edison failed approximately 10,000 times before he finally invented
the light bulb. Henry Ford was broke at the age of 40. Beethoven, as a young child,
was told he had no talent for music. Walt Disney, as a young cartoonist, was told
that he wasn't good at cartooning. In his struggling years at Bollywood, Amitabh
Bachchan could not get a suitable role because he was 'too tall and thin' and
was rejected in an All India Radio audition because of a 'heavy voice'!
Or take Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi. "Few people face as much failure and
humiliation in one life as Gandhi did," continues Batra. "But he didn't
give up. He was there, at the right time, still struggling, when his fate changed."
The issues may not have been big enough. But the dreams were. And each step was
taken in that direction.
"You don't have to want to be successful,"
writes psychologist and motivation teacher Edward de Bono in his book, Tactics:
The Art and Science of Success. "You don't have to value success. But
if you do want to be successful, then there are two attitudes. The first is the
passive attitude, which tells you that there is nothing you can do except wait
for luck or pray for the right temperature and talent. The second is the positive
attitude, which tells you that there are things you can do that will make a difference."
As Abraham
Lincoln said: "Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left
by those who hustle."
Vikas
Malkani has developed a model for lasting and fulfilling success. He calls it
the hand of success, because there are five principles involved here. You can
also call it the 'ABCDE' of success. Awareness
The first thing before you embark on action is awareness. It is real knowledge,
special wisdom that there is only One. You and the universe are one. Whatever
you wish is also the wish of the universe. If so, then the universe will always
support you and you will realize your dreams. It works like a self-fulfilling
prophecy. But you've got to believe it.
Next,
you have to follow it up with the necessary action. It is not enough to wish.
You must take responsibility to make it happen. Dreams are sent by God, they are
not in your control. Everything starts within and then manifests outside. Make
sure that your vision is large.
Belief
This relates to attitudes. Henry Ford said: "If you believe you can, or believe
you can't, you are right." So it is all up to you. You have to believe that
you deserve success and you can do it.
Choice
You can never win, if you don't begin. After having begun, put in 110 per cent.
It means persistence and perseverance through setbacks. Success is never achieved
in the absence of problems, but despite problems.
Never
be fatalistic. Many people who fail, blame luck. But let me tell you what LUCK
means, it is Labor Under Correct Knowledge. The harder you work, the luckier you
get.
Detachment In other words, surrender. Let the action
go to the universe or God.
What
you can do instead is to pray. There is power in prayer, faith. Make God a partner
in all your endeavors; keep him by your side. Remember how before the Mahabharata
war, both Duryodhana and Arjun go to Krishna beseeching him to be their ally.
Krishna gives them a choice: one side can have his entire army and the other side
him alone. Duryodhana chooses the army and Arjun him. And we know the outcome
of the war.
Enjoyment
Bliss or contentment must come. The usual pattern is that we act, then expect
results and complain if results fall short of our expectations. Even if you succeed,
the thrill of achieving it doesn't last. As they say, a Mercedes is enjoyable
as long as you are hoping to get it. So western motivational speakers advise people
at this stage to start working on another project. In this model, struggle is
ceaseless. But what we want is lasting success. Sri Aurobindo said: "All
life is yoga." All life should be success also.
There's more to work than just the monthly pay check.
Work as a form of self-expression, a medium of joy and self-satisfaction, an instrument
of growth, is not a quaint, impractical notion, it is a reality.
Today,
we can take charge of our work not only because human potential is infinite but
because the very forces of life are conspiring to push us in the direction of
our dreams and desires.
For starters, 50 years of independence have freed
us from insecurity. The urge to dive and nestle into the ostensible safety of
a government or bank job is no longer so compulsive. Says Rekha, a government
clerk who trained to become a computer teacher at Mumbai's Somaiya College: "I
knew it was time for me to leave when I finished knitting my second sweater at
work!"
Moreover, there are more opportunities today. We can opt
to be a disc jockey, a TV anchor, scriptwriter, pop singer, hairstylist, photographer,
novelist, deep-sea diver, teacher, trainer, self-employed businessperson, sportsperson
and innumerable other vocations. In fact, the satellite revolution, liberalization,
globalization and the hothouses of information technology have each placed our
destiny in our own hands.
But if today's environment is brewing up the
opportunities for a more individual and satisfying livelihood, the context for
the change is largely spiritual.
Searching for the right work is either
the offshoot or the beginning of a larger search towards wholeness or happiness.
Karma yoga is one of the three classic paths to liberation prescribed by the Bhagavad
Gita. "Therefore without attachment ever perform action that should be done;
for by doing action without attachment a man attains the Supreme."
In the New
Age, such advice coalesces well with the overall pursuit of universal harmony,
happiness and realization of human potential. Books such as The Celestine Prophecy
and The Tenth Insight dwell on the mission each of us is expected to fulfill
during our earthly sojourn.
Even
for those without an overt spiritual agenda, growth is almost the inevitable spin-off
of finding the perfect job. Says Dilip D'Souza, a US-based computer scientist
turned activist-journalist: "I feel I've grown more in the past five years
since returning from the USA and moving into journalism and activism, than in
the last 10 years."
In almost all cases, the change of work has
also positively impacted their lifestyle. Rupa Vyas, a production executive at
Merind Ltd, chose to be a personal growth trainer. She attributes the intimacy
she was able to build with her in-laws and husband to her more unstructured work.
Clearly, when you work for yourself, it becomes possible to build your work
around your life rather than the usual tendency to wrap your life around your
work.
However, if finding the perfect job is possible, the task isn't
always easy. For many people, pursuit of their dreams has often meant the confrontation
with hard choices. Deepa Krishnan, who took a one-year sabbatical from her lucrative
job as a computer graphics designer to pursue her interest in the Mother Goddess
and tribal society, says that the one year of frantic growth has strained her
marriage: "Though I value my marriage, I don't know if I'm willing to sacrifice
my dreams for it."
People
like Deepa seem to have plugged into a path that keeps unfolding new opportunities.
In other words, the perfect work is a landscape that is capable of radical flexibility
and is attuned to any change in our internal perspectives, priorities and interests
as well as changes in the world outside.
The harvest is munificent. Rupa
Vyas, who moved into personal growth, finds her life more in balance. What matters,
above all, is the joy they experience. In realizing our perfect work, we are realizing
ourselves.
To
identify your life's work, ask yourself what it is that you wish to do. If undecided,
identify what is the most important thing at work for you. What are the things
that make you most happy? What dreams do you have of what you want to do? Now,
assess the following four factors:
1.
Harvest your gifts: What are your unique talents? If unaware, look to see what
people most compliment you on. Is it your ability to get on with people, or your
organizing ability? All these have possibilities.
2.
Passion: What drives you? Look within for your best-loved activities. Make
sure it pays too.
3. Mission: Do you feel called upon to do something?
This is a powerful motivator if you are lucky enough.
4.
Assets: What is the sum total of your experience, academic qualifications
and contacts? Examine the opportunities these factors collectively present. Check
them for practicality, for your personal attunement to them. Gauge their monetary
potential. Then make your choice.