| Subject: cancer how do we deal with it |
| I cant imagine how i would feel if diagnoised with a life threatning diease. And not to sure on how to deal with a doctor saying you have four months to live. It would devastate me even more if i had small children. I watched my grandfather die with cancer, and my mother had lung cancer but surgery prevented her from dying. After one year she went for checkup and had another type cancer and refuesd to take kemo again, with the fear of dyiny sooner. What can you say?.I smoke and have developed a disaese, and doctors keep telling me to stop smoking, but i still smoke. How should i feel if i get cancer. how do you relate to anyone with cancer. I should wakeup and smell the coffee, but it is so hard. however if cancer is in your family how do we get around it? knowing it could someday be you. Fear is a factor because i think about my mother everyday, waiting for that phone call in the night. Cancer to me is like a theif in the night just waiting for that next victim. And how can you confort somthing like that?. What do you say to them. We cant feel the pain that come with cancer, the hair lose,and weight. I remenber watching my grandfather, and his last words to me were im ready to go. It was his pride and the pain he endured, and he said to me i wish the pain would stop. After so long the morphine stops working. So you tell me. Its hard dealing with a friend or family member dying from cancer, so how do you deal with yourself being dionosed with a fatal diease?. Do you seek help fron a psychologist, seek spirtaul help what? |
| Posted by: vetonia stanley holmes on 4 Nov. 2008 |
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