Megha Bajaj shares an open letter to her spiritual child, offering solace and support based on her own experience of living and loving
I have a spiritual child. Her name is Linisha, and she lives in New York. I met her about a decade ago, and I don’t really understand the bond between us or why I see her as my baby, my responsibility, my darling.
I feel so protective of her. I want the best for her. I wish I could keep her with me all the time.
We talk a lot about relationships, and I wish to tell her so many things right now as she is on a very beautiful juncture in her life. I wanted to write this as an email to her for many nights, and then I felt, why not flow here. Who knows? I may discover so much more, and many others may find some answers they are looking for. So here I am. This is a letter to Lini. And to you. And to me.
My darling doll,
I love you so much.
I cannot express how proud I am of you.
Of all the ways in which you are growing.
For all that you are becoming.
I am watching your journey with an awestruck smile, as proud as a mother can be. Here are a few beautiful learnings on relationships that I wish to share with you as you make a decision that will change your life forever.
The first: After a while, it just does not matter who is right or wrong. What matters is, is there peace? Peace keeps relationships so beautiful, and I hope you preserve yours and help others to preserve theirs. A home filled with peace is a divine one. Much after all the day’s chores are done, the battles are won, and the lights are dimmed, laying your heart upon that pillow with a heart silent and at peace really matters. Feeling one with the night, with him, and yourself feels like everything is worth it.
The second: Love is the answer to all the issues that love brings up. While being with another, a difference of opinions, shifts in tempers and temperaments, unique boiling thresholds—it is all going to come up. It is only expected. And yet, if love remains your anchor and every thought, word, and action are deeply rooted in this, you will manage to sail through. Love is not just a soft and tender feeling. It is a force, and it will carry you through the roughest of storms. Hold it tight, Baby Girl!
The third: Discover in yourself an unconditional lover and giver. Relationships can either bring you closer to you, your purpose, and your Divine, or move you away from it. The beautiful Truth is—which side you want to be on depends on you and not the other. Each day, allow the other to bring forth the best in you. Ask yourself, “What more? How else can I let him know how much I love him?” It’s strange, but when you keep thinking of giving, you end up receiving much more. So beautifully He puts it: “Starvation of love does not cease by receiving but by giving.”
The fourth: It’s under construction. You are a work in progress. He is a work in progress. The ‘we’ you come together to form, too, is a work in progress. Be kind— to yourself. And others. Be accepting—of yourself. And others. Be forgiving—to yourself. And others. It’s a crazy adventure; learn to not take yourself or others too seriously. Allow room for expressions. For agreements and disagreements. For making mistakes and learning from them.
No one gets it all right.
No one gets it all wrong.
We just keep trying—to grow in the bliss of love each day.
And so will you.
I am with you.
Like a soft cashmere sweater on a snowflake evening.
I love you,
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