Judging people Is not bad a reactionary Judgeship Is
September 2015
Judging is an ever-present, ongoing and perpetually omnipresent process of life. You get judged by all and sundry and in turn, you too do the same, consciously or subconsciously. Still feel bad about this whole business of judgeship…
he trouble is – this instinctive compulsion of judging and judgeship is not bad… it is rather our innate mechanism for survival, which we can master for our excellence…
There are certain aspects of this judgeship, which we all must know and apply in our daily lives. Then, we surely shall find that actually, judging others and even ourselves is such a joy thing… and a very empowering and wellness mechanism…
Ideally, if you have to judge a thing or a person, you just let it hang for a while… allow time and space to redeem yourself to the point where you have – objectivity, calm consciousness, no biases, no anger and no reactive energy. Then, wait a bit more….
It is important that you come out of the situation first. For that to happen to you, you shall need to change your contemporary ‘reactive-mode consciousness to the ‘receptive-mode’. Usually, people are in deep reactionary consciousnesses, and that is definitely against the hypothesis of judgeship…
As you sit for judgment, remember, the golden rule of judgeship is – even if hundred culprits go scot free, an innocent should never be convicted. Judgeship is a non-emotional and compassionate, yet objectively righteous idea. Always remember, trial starts with a notion that ‘wrong’ has happened but not with ‘who’ has wronged. At the start, there are no ‘culprits’, only ‘suspects’….
The moment we decide to sit as judge, we need to don the mantle of holistic, assimilative and integrative perspective while analyzing the root of the trouble. This helps us in getting rid of the unnecessary burden of the ‘cultural-fabrics’ and ‘subjective-mind with which we usually ‘dress-up’ a simple problem, in our reactive-mode consciousness.
And, we all need to remember, judgeship is not only about delivering decisions about right and wrong, it is also about forgiveness… why? Because, forgiveness is the only medicine, which kills the pathogen of ‘hypocrisy’, which is the worst and largest malaise of humanity…